OrdinaryGirl

It would change nothing at all about what I'd hope for their lives. I'd still want them to be happy, healthy, follow their dreams, achieve some degree of success, make the world a better place and love and be loved. Whether or not the person they choose to come home to has the same genitalia or not is irrelevant as long as they respect each other and it's a healthy relationship.

The Good Rev

I am neither 40 nor a real Reverend...thanks for the laugh though. :D

Juan.©amaney

Being that my opinion is that Gay behavior is taught and not born with, there's almost no way that having me for a father figure would make any son of mine gay. My daughters might be dikes, but hey, that's fine by me.

I'd take the catholic church approach to a homosexual child. You can love anyone you want, but remember that the love between a man and another man, should never turn passionate (ie no butt sechts).

This ofcourse after many trips to the strip bar!

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superh

Well, I'd quite frankly prefer them to be heterosexual, or even bisexual, but my relationship would not change with them if they were a homosexual.

I would still care for them, give them help when they needed it, and be there for them. They're not doing anything in bed with me, so frankly, I wouldn't care. It's nothing that affects me directly, and I could care less if my kids have kids. I could care less if I father kids.

Heh... Butt sects... I like that one!

I wouldn't even care if it were my son, if he were having butt sex. I would just request to know NOTHING about his sexual life or activities. Don't ask, don't tell!

Juan.©amaney

Dude, that's child endangernment or some bullshit. Seriously, don't go saying that publicly. Not that we are being spied on, but I know a friend of mine got in trouble for that and he is STILL fighting the courts; his baby momma is a BITCH.

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CD

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ah fuck... now I have the guilt trip on me that my post got some 11 year old his first chubby! Thanks a lot BR!....
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hey wait a sec. That isn't neccessarily a bad thing! I mean after Macy he will have high standards right?... ... right?

(pardon me while I pat myself on the back for making sure yet another boy doesn't catch teh gay)

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AmorMiHombre

Maybe he was just admiring her dye job and shiny green pants??

HEhe, but an 11 yr old....eh....kinda weird.

Car Enthusiast

naw, i looked at girls as long as i can remember, and girls never had kudies, some jwere just faster than me when we played kiss and catch

BackdoorJesus

hey man, appreciate your concern, but don't worry, I'm not endangering my kid & I'm usually a pretty competent dad - it's not like I was saying to the kid "hey little dude, you gotta check out this cooze...", truly, he just caught a glimpse of my monitor when I wasn't aware.

Besides, he's turning 12 in a week; as I recall, that was about the time in my life that I was sneaking into my dad's den & scoping out his Playboy collection... at least my boy isn't being a sneak.

I feel pretty good, actually, that at this age, my kid doesn't feel he needs to be embarrased or hide from me the fact that he has an interest in girls and has some developing feelings about his sexuality. I certainly couldn't address any sexual issues with my parents at that age, which I think is truly more bad than good, since that's the age when kids start to have confusion/concerns about their sexuality and need their parents' guidance the most.

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Jimi

Maybe he was just looking at her thong, thinking how it might look on him??

BackdoorJesus

That is precisely the feeling you should walk away from this conversation with, man.

Really, people - you might say "OMG, an 11 yr old looking at porn - egad!", but come on - take yourselves back to that time in your life (guys anyway) - you weren't into girls then? You may not have admitted it to your buddies, but you were (unless you turned out gay-LOL).

BR

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AmorMiHombre

That's not being a sneak, it's being a kid. I don't think i know of anyone who DIDN'T find out about sex from scrambled porn, big bro's playboy stash or friends at school.

In fact i kinda wish i had learned a lil less from my mom and family...heh but that's another story.

Hope you keep your stash well hidden.

nyast

Better to get an honest discussion from his parents than to believe the locker room myths the guys tell at school.

Esco

After the initial shock I would hope I would hug my child and say it's not an issue. Emotionally I would be disappointed, but it's my child and I would still love him/her unconditionally.