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10-01-2004, 10:14 PM
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~The Loveliest Member~
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How important is this to you?
How important is it to you that your partner is pleasured sexually? Do you even consider their orgasm before you orgasm? Do you try to make sure they enjoy themselves...or does it even matter as long as you're fulfilled? How far would you go to make sure your partner is pleased as well? :wiggle:
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10-02-2004, 09:39 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2004
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Re: How important is this to you?
for me, its all about my partner, i mean yah, i want to be satisifed to, but i always put him first, but i am like that with everything, i always put other people first...
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10-02-2004, 11:26 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Indiana
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Re: How important is this to you?
as far as it takes....its all about pleasing eachother.....id never be with a guy that didnt care about my needs like i do his
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10-02-2004, 02:09 PM
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Re: How important is this to you?
right on
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10-02-2004, 02:14 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Fairfax, VA
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Re: How important is this to you?
I've always made a point to get the other person off first. I personally get more pleasure and excitement out of hearing/feeling her have an orgasm than anything else. Of course back when I was like 16-19 or whatever, I didn't give a shit, and just did my thing. Although.. through the years.. I've learned a lot more and made my priorities.
Considering how much I care about Chrystine.. making her feel good I would consider my most important thing to accomplish whenever we have sex. Once I give her the first orgasm, I'll go with mine shortly there after or even the same time.
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10-02-2004, 02:15 PM
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: O-town, FL
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Re: How important is this to you?
I am all about her pleasure. Seeing her get off turns me on so much.
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10-02-2004, 02:40 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Texas
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Re: How important is this to you?
I have always been about pleasing my partner first. I'm very turned on by knowing that I'm giving her pleasure. And you have to figure that if you make sure your partner is satisfied, you might get it a little more often. 
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10-02-2004, 03:19 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: virginia
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Re: How important is this to you?
it is all about her, if she don't get off it wasn't worth while. i always make sure my lady gets off a few times before i do no matter what i have to. i am willing to do almost anything to please my partner
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10-03-2004, 07:50 PM
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Re: How important is this to you?
Well, if i do not give her pleasure then i feel was not worth the effort, but i hate it when someone fakes an orgasm. what do thers think? let me know
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10-03-2004, 11:28 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Indiana
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Re: How important is this to you?
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Originally Posted by greb_zulu619
Well, if i do not give her pleasure then i feel was not worth the effort, but i hate it when someone fakes an orgasm. what do thers think? let me know
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i never fake it....if the guys not pushing the right buttons, then i tell him what he needs to do...simple as that......or if it just aint happenin and its takin too long, then ill just take care of business myself and let him watch so maybe he'll know what to do next time 
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10-05-2004, 03:19 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Australia
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Re: How important is this to you?
It is all about getting her off.
It's all good and well for me to get off. But physics don't allow me to continue for much longer afterwards without having a break. Besides, there's things that are more sensual than an orgasm.
I really enjoy watching women go off. It's amazing once you get them there how long you can keep them there for. They just take off and don't come down till you stop.
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10-05-2004, 10:15 AM
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whore
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: South East
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Re: How important is this to you?
Interesting question when asked by a woman. Most men obviosly have no problem being satisfied and I have noticed most women want to satisfy their man even without being satisfied themselves. Maybe it's the whole nurturing thing. However, the most fun in bed is had when the woman is willing to be satisfied and knows what it takes to for her to be satisfied. Overcoming a woman's inhibitions about her own sexuality has always led to me having more fun. There is NOTHING more exciting for me than having a woman satisfy herself while I caress, kiss, watch, tease etc. Usually after several orgasms, she is more than willing to f%#k your brains out.
I wish more women were like SillyRabbit.
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10-05-2004, 11:32 PM
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: northern virginia
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Re: How important is this to you?
since it is a dance for two people, everyone should have a good time.therefore, I do whatever I can to make sure she gets hers before I get mine(lots of foreplay and teasing) and if I should get there first, theres always other ways to finish what I started. I figured early, if she enjoys it, there's a better chance for a second time.
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10-07-2004, 08:15 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: NC
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Re: How important is this to you?
If she wants to come, I make sure she comes first. If she is doing it only for my pleasure, I come when I want. Having been together for so long, I can tell when she is into it and will come, and when there is no way she is getting off. My sex drive is quite a bit higher than hers, so she doesn't mind not getting off EVERY time as long as she gets off every time SHE wants.
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10-07-2004, 08:35 PM
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Re: How important is this to you?
I always make sure that my partner is happily satisfied before I am done. If you love your partner, you have to make sure that they are satisfied. You're BOTH having sex hence you BOTH have to enjoy it and be happy.
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