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Me and my girlfriend are both in college and have been going out for the last year and 1/2. It will actually be one year and 6 months on the 23rd. Now, we don't have sex, but we do other things. Unfortunently, these "other things" are few and far between. I'm lucky to get a handjob once every two weeks, and have gotten maybe 3 bj's the entire time, and they were all months apart. And it's not like I havn't done anything, because apart from the last week or so I've been going down on her probably 2-3 a week at the minimum. Here recently I havn't done anything to her since about a week ago, and she hasn't done anything in the last 2 1/2 weeks. (Is it bad when you know the date of the last time!?!?) So I've decided I'm not doing anything untill she does something first, and hopefully she'll get frustrated and understand what I'm going through. I've already talked to her about it 3-4 times and everytime she gets quiet/sad and apologizes but nothing ever changes. So I come here seeking advice.
Thanks

sonrisa10201

i would say go post 24 more times so you can get into the girls pics forum, then you can take care of yourself to some great pics courtesy of the wonderful men of webrats :happycow: .

but seriously, it just sounds like she isnt comfortable doing it. dont push her to do anything, and when she does bring on the praise! play with her hair and moan when shes giving you head, tell her how good it feels. she will get more confident knowing that you like it, and it could possibly lead to her doing it more.

Juan.©amaney

Fucking prude! She gets eaten twice a week and u get blown once a month if ur lucky. Go to the local street pharmacist, get some Rohypnol, and put it in her drink while she isnt looking. Then go to town on her bunghole and when she wakes up, pretend the drink was extra spicy and that is why her asshole hurts.

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noob79

I had a similar situation with my ex-girlfriend. Actually that's why she became my ex. I would confront her about it. It seems she doesn't want to talk about it or is shy about sex. That's not going to be fixed by not talking about it. I should know I waited over 6 months before confronting my girlfriend at the time and thats how we broke up.

Save yourself the trouble now and find out whats going on. Every situation is different for all you know she may want to release the animal in her but is afraid of letting go because she wants to save sex for marriage or something.

Talking = Best option. Even if you break up you aren't wasting your time with the wrong person anymore.

wrx03

that doesn't sound fair, talk to her about it

Chrystine

I agree completely...

Reciprocation is key in a relationship...it sounds to me like she's greedy when it comes to sex, which only indicates bad things for the future.

Seriously talk to her about it and tell her EXACTLY how you feel and let her know that this is a BIG issue...maybe then she'll get it

AmorMiHombre

Maybe she's a lesbian.

Like Sonrisa said, maybe she isn't comfortable and needs more praise....Either way, after 1.5 years go enjoy your collegiate career and live it up...unless you really love her or something.

Profile145

dump her selfish ass, it's one thing for a girl to be holding out for marriage or something (still gay) but to let you go down on her and not even give you a HJ in return?

that goes beyond being prudish, that is pure assholeness.

i3eeker

Wow man, you have a lot of patience, I can understand women wanting to wait to have sex, but if we are still not doing anything after about a month(things other than sex), then it's time to either put out or get out. Especially if i'm satisfying her and she's not returning the favor.

PS2Thief

Dude.

Just talk to her, explain exactly how you feel. What can be so bad about it eh? You letting this eat you up while she thinks nothing is wrong?

Talk to her, let her know how you truly feel, if she walks, then as bad as it may sound its for the best. Because if you are with someone you want to be able to talk to her about anything.

I find it weird that she lets you go down on her so much and the topic of why you havent had sex in 1 and a half years hasnt come up.

Just talk to her, tell her how you feel, and make sure you get how she feels.

BackdoorJesus

Obviously, it's not religion or anything like that that's making her hold off...or she wouldn't even be letting you go down on her in the first place.

Whatever the issue, it's time to talk it out once & for all with her and either take your relationship to the next level, or quit on it. Period.

Dude - In college there is just too much to do, and too many women to do, for you to waste your time with a one-sided relationship. You are living in poon central - get what you want/need out of this relationship, or move on to another relationship where you will get what you want/need. Bite the bullet & talk it out with her - do not waste this opportunity to discover yourself & others by being stuck in a high-school type of relationship...PLEASE!

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gliscameria

Dude, I hear ya. My current girlfriend... X-X girlfriend used to seem that way. No where near you're extent, but there was still some serious sexual frustration on my part. You have to how to talk to her and what she likes. Giving does not mean getting with girls, trust me. Now things are badass, there was some wierd emotional stuff that was up in the air that had no idea about, and once it was gone, things are open, and it's great.

If you want some lovin, talk about emotional issues. It's how it works.

nitro_D

You are a man and you do have needs, if she wont give it up go get some side meat! Tell her you can give yourself a fuckin had job! whatthefuck!

wingshot

at your age you are most likely not going to get married, so if you arent happy and not getting what you want.....RUN the other way. Do not prolong your suffering.