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09-03-2004, 12:29 AM
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whore
Join Date: May 2004
Location: IL
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What age
At what age does it become pathetic to be a virgin......
....if you are a guy?
....if you are a girl?
Just curious what you guys think.
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09-03-2004, 12:33 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Kentucky
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Re: What age
My boss is a 35-year-old virgin. I believe he is actually in denial, though, so I'm not sure that counts.
But is it ever pathetic if it's something you believe in? If you are 30, unmarried, and don't believe in pre-marital sex, it's more pathetic to not be a virgin.
Granted, I haven't been one for 10 years so I don't really remember what it's like, but still ... I've a few regrets, therefore I'd fault no one for keeping the ol' V-card.
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09-03-2004, 01:08 AM
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Not all ninjas wear masks
Join Date: May 2004
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Re: What age
I agree... its not pathetic for anyone to be a virgin, no matter how old they are. I was a virgin until i was 22, by choice. If someone abstains from sex their entire life, i dont think they are pathetic in the least, rather one of the strongest people who ever lived to put up with all the stereotypes and pressures such as the one that has been displayed here.
Just my two cents.
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09-03-2004, 01:14 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Oak Ridge, TN, (Nukeville)
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Re: What age
I'm 21 and still a virgin, and I expect to remain one for several more years. I'm not even in a hurry to lose my virginity. Sex doesn't drive me like it does most men.
-Insaniteus-
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09-03-2004, 01:27 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: CO
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Re: What age
I was a virgin till 15....I think the whole curiosity will drive you crazy...but to each their own, I respect everyone from sluts (men and women) to the obstainers, no way will I judge anyone and their personal choice
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09-03-2004, 04:54 PM
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Little Duck
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Chicago, IL
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Re: What age
depends on if you're waiting until you're married, until you find the right person, or just abstaining for life. if someone is just waiting for the right person... then I'd say sometime in the late 20's, and if someone is waiting until they're married, then maybe late 30's
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09-03-2004, 10:14 PM
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whore
Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Texas
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Re: What age
I was one until I was 27. Then I was like a rabbit once I had it once. If you don't know what you're missing, it's no big deal. But once you start down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny. 
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09-07-2004, 12:07 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: CandyLand
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Re: What age
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Originally Posted by roachfood
I agree... its not pathetic for anyone to be a virgin, no matter how old they are. I was a virgin until i was 22, by choice.
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UNLESS this is who i think it might be posting under your name.....
And i agree that it isn't pathetic...a little out of the ordinary nowadays but more power to you.....i was 21...and sometimes wouldn't mind having the old V card back..... 
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09-07-2004, 01:15 AM
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whore
Join Date: May 2004
Location: Right Behind You
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Re: What age
I agree ... it isn't so much "pathetic" as unusual. I don't think having sex makes a person any more special than the next person.
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09-08-2004, 12:51 PM
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: pullman, wa
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Re: What age
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Originally Posted by Esco
I agree ... it isn't so much "pathetic" as unusual. I don't think having sex makes a person any more special than the next person.
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Nor is a virgin more special than a non.. just different. I keep hearing guys say they want to marry a virgin (if you have a livejournal, keyword virgin and look at some of the communities) and a few are virgins, while others sometimes aren't. They are waiting for marriage and absolute bordering asshole that their wives be of the same morals. That's cool for them, but some of them are 20-30+ and still not married.
Virginity for my friends was not really a cool-kid card, but conversation could flow a lot better because we (being my best friend and I) tend to talk about sex a lot. So a few of our other friends didn't lose their viriginities until college, one a good catholic I'm kinda surprised about, and I dunno, things are much more interesting when we hang out now. They were all so naive and now to have their opinions at the table are really interesting. Especially my friend who lost it to a friend, then had sex with 4 other guys last year.
Ok I'm rambling now, hitting send 
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09-14-2004, 06:28 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: SLC
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Re: What age
35 is pushing it
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09-30-2004, 02:27 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: LA
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Re: What age
I think whatever you feel is right for you then it doesn't matter what age.
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09-30-2004, 11:12 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: NC
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Re: What age
Social norms change all the time, I lost my virginity at 13, but I think if I had waited I might not be as good as I am now.
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10-30-2004, 06:01 PM
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Mod with the Bod
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Join Date: Oct 2004
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Re: What age
i'm 20 and still a virgin, and i feel ok with it. i don't feel like i'm pathetic in any way. sure i'm curious, but as i have no idea what i'm missing, i can easily convince myself that i'm not missing out on a whole lot :P i just don't want the hassle of having to remember to take a pill every day and going crazy if my period's late. i don't think i'm mature enough to handle an unplanned pregnancy so i'm still waiting. it used to be really hard for me and my boyfriend but now we're in different countries so we really have no choice but to wait 
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10-31-2004, 08:08 PM
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whore
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: CT
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Re: What age
This is my frist time posting here but i have alittle say to put it so ill toss a post up  . First off it doesnt matter if you have or had not had sex most people lie about it when they are younger, this isnt always true though. For most girls they only talk about sex to other girls very rarly do they let EVERYONE know they have had sex unless they want it to be known. Girls wanna look slutty for attention not always because there sluts same with guys. People in general wanna look "cool" and whats "cooler" then hooking up with a hot guy or a hot girl. If being a virgin was "cool" everyone would be one until they where married why do you think this whole non-religious abstence has poped up. Do these people really belive in this or are they just hopping on a band-wagon that 95% of america tends to do. I don't know about where you guys are but where i live i know 3 people that are now AFTER they have already had sex are now waiting for marrage, after a few people "popular" people have done so.
wow this whole post is turning into a rant for my first post basicly what im getting at is WHO CARES WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT IN YOUR LIFE! also, this is how i feel about it and how i look apon it around my town some people out there really do belive in no pre-marrage sex like i said 3 people in my town DO belive in it.
P.S. i lost mine at 18 (19 now) and i feel it most of the time it really just complcates (sp?) relationships
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