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View Poll Results: What would you do??
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Abide by her/his wishes and wait for that ever so lovely wedding day.
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Abide by her/his wishes, but on those bad days look at porn on the net and personally handle your every need.
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Abide by her/his wishes, but fulfill your needs with others. (what she/he won't know won't hurt)
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Tell her/him to get lost, no girl/guy is worth that sacrifice.
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09-08-2004, 11:06 AM
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Groin Grabbingly Good
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: North Mexico . . . Penis Size: Python
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Re: Could you wait?
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Okay...here's the deal. You're dating the woman/man of your dreams...you've been seeing each other for awhile and never has the topic of sex come up. One night you're together and you feel the need to bring up what obviously needs to be discussed. She/He tells you that no way will they have sex until they are married (whether it be religious reasons, morals, what have you)....anyway...you really like this person...she/he is all you really want out of a person...BUT...what would you do...
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More to life than just sex. If she was THAT perfect, I'd wait and we could always do other fun stuff that didnt involve it.
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09-08-2004, 11:31 AM
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This is my rifle...
Champion!
Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: in the US
Posts: 1,629/1.05
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Re: Could you wait?
Good to hear that Juan, I'm that way too. Not that I'm still a virgin now, but that's what I believe. Oh and Mystic and Insaniteus, I like your attitude on it, but even if it doesn't turn out to be magical the first time, don't be dissapointed, it will be magical soon enough. Just my 2 cents.
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09-09-2004, 11:25 PM
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: Canada
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Re: Could you wait?
Yeah, waiting for intercourse is fine as long as they'll play in other ways...
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09-10-2004, 02:50 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: SoCal
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Re: Could you wait?
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More to life than just sex. If she was THAT perfect, I'd wait and we could always do other fun stuff that didnt involve it.
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that other stuff makes intercourse seem mild.  sorta' defeats the purpose
welcome back amigo... you didn't miss much... southland has been sweatland
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09-16-2004, 09:44 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: MD
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Re: Could you wait?
If they were the person of my dreams I could wait, chances are though the person that matches my personality wouldn't be a "wait till marriage person" (they tend to be very religious)
Also when, (IF? :-( ) I do meet the girl of my dreams I am gonna marry her quick. No way is she getting away.
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09-17-2004, 05:37 PM
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whore
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: united states
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Re: Could you wait?
tough choice...
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09-21-2004, 02:37 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Maryland
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Re: Could you wait?
I mean if you really liek the person and can see yourself with them for the rest of your life then wait till marriage. I think a lot of it depends on how old you are and many other situations but i mean.. I was sorta in that postion and I left because I just wasn't happy with the relationship so more respect to the first guy
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09-21-2004, 09:36 PM
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whore
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: In my car
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Re: Could you wait?
I would never buy a car without test driving it. You at least need some oral while you wait, if shes no good at that then she had better be one hell of a cook and love some football on sundays 
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09-23-2004, 12:01 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: L.A.
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Re: Could you wait?
If I knew she was the one; then I'd definitely wait if she forced it. I mean, just b/c she won't have sex doesn't mean *other* things can't happen.
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09-23-2004, 03:18 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Pennsylvania
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Re: Could you wait?
I really don't think I could wait... and in all honesty, it's never been an issue
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09-29-2004, 12:12 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: LA
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Re: Could you wait?
I think that it depends on whether you like this person or love them. If there was no question that she was the one, then hell yeah, I'd wait. but i would hope there would be a little playing around.
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10-01-2004, 09:44 PM
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whore
Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Texas
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Re: Could you wait?
Hey, I'm waiting now without the girl of my dreams. So why wouldn't I wait if I was with her. 
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10-13-2004, 03:29 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Atlanta, GA
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Re: Could you wait?
I'm in the same boat as mystichaze. Been dating my girl for awhile (not quite since junior high, though), and although distance and responsibilities keep us apart much of the time, I'm pretty sure about her. We've made that agreement and intend to stick to it. That includes oral or other sex.
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Religion isn't a bad excuse. I don't even think it could be considered an excuse. A bad excuse would be, say, "I can't have sex with you because I have to wash my hair," or, "I want to wait because vaginas are scary." Not, "I want to wait because the religion I see as important enough to devote my life to forbids premarital sex." Most people are looking for excuses to have sex, not to wait.
I can see the advantages of premarital sex. But, there are advantages to waiting--for instance, it can often pose a true test to the strength of a relationship. Many here have said they'd need to do oral--but is that something to base the survival of a relationship on? How far the other will go before he/she is wearing a wedding ring?
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10-14-2004, 05:09 AM
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whore
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Indiana and Kentucky
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Re: Could you wait?
I totally agree with the waiting until marriage. Can't do the thing 'till you get the ring. I will admit, that I didn't quite make it that long; but I was 21 when it happened and it was with my fiancee (now my wife). So I'm still able to say that my first is also my last. But I wish we would have waited. I think it would have meant more if we would have; sort of made it a bit more special. And I blame HER 100%. LoL. Even to this day, she tells me that she had seduced me that night. Took her over 6 hours; she was beginning to think she couldn't break me. LOL. I think waiting is a good idea, that way you know that you love that person for who they are, not how good they are. People often confuse being in love, with being in heat. It's not about sex, it's about making love.
Last edited by finley : 10-22-2004 at 06:42 PM.
Reason: thread closed, no expiration on poll, and no new comments. Leave room for new stuff
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