subucni

Did I mention I go to Northwestern, and that I'm pre-med... hehe. :wiggle:

EDIT: Boy does that make me sound arrogant...

Seriously though, thank you to EVERYONE who has replied to this thread. In my few months here, I have never had or seen anyone else's questions answered so thoughtfully and seriously by this many people. It's really nice to get such great information like that. It really is good and encouraging to know how much attention girls pay to a guy's personality and who they are, instead of being like some guys who will go for a pretty face with no brain.

Calafia

"Did I mention I go to Northwestern, and that I'm pre-med"

That's HOT.

subucni

:wiggle:

Juan.©amaney

In my experience, a pretty face will get you through the door, but you better have a brain, verbal skills, and personality to back it up. I'm not much to look at, but If I can get a girl to give me her attention for a few minutes, I can keep her interested long enough to get to know her and charm her.

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Andytsi95

^^^

clamsrus

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The body is the packaging, the mind/personality the contents......I'd punt for content any old time. Having said that...the whole of our culture seems based on heavily on physical appearances to sell etc. and first impressions always count for something in the short term....which "all said and done" is usually all there is in most interactions.

I deal with a great many people in a week, and I'd have to say that while the bulk of my interactions are "gender neutral", there is the occaisional female that I find irresistable.....and I'd be hard pressed to say whether it's look, scent, movement, whatever, but it's unmistakeably physical.....and on the other hand there are people who evoke in me a quite visceral dislike bordering on revulsion....which I attribute to body type, smell, all self/nonself stuff which also seems to be hard wired in.

Now while at the intellectual level my interactions are ruled by head stuff alone, it would be facile to think that the other considerations don't colour my approach. I have someone working in the room with me constantly and have sometimes wondered if they consciously note any differences in how I approach people based on whether I find them attractive or otherwise. Certainly if there is a personality "click" from both ends I enjoy the process.