bpboyz

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when they were someones little girls, they couldnt make the grand canyon look like virgin mary.

billpl

whores are people too.

tonight

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it might make me feel uncomfortable but i doubt its a relationship changing matter unless its like REALLY high. Then it just might prick my morals.

But yes for the one nighter, I wouldnt even ask.

IrishSmiles

as long as he hasnt slept with every girl who opened her legs for him - otherwise that shows no control and a lack of - ummm for want of a better word - discretion. and it will probably also mean a good chance that he has picked up something that i dont want to be a part of :(

as for the intimate details, i agree with ordinarygirl, dont load me with tmi (too much info)

just point me in the right direction and i'll do my best to please you

Patito

I don't think it really matter, but maybe only if it was really high or something... but everyone can make mistakes and want to change their lives and I think they deserve to be given second chances. I know my girlfriend has had more lovers than me, but what matters is that I know she really loves me now and they don't mean anything to her anymore.

jus4fun

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My wife was much more sexually active than I was before we got together. For me, it not only wasn't a problem it was kind of neat. I have found her anecdotes to be kind of exciting.

YardDog24

Past. Why should it bother me? I suppose it used to (young and dumb days). Cant change the past, just the future!

toad5

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Depends if it's me or her

La_LovelyLady

My opinion...is yes it does matter. To me anyway. *sigh* I respect myself...I respect others. It all depends on how many we're talking and how it all took place. For someone who had no respect for himself...and simply used sex to pacify his time or fill a void...I don't know....personally it gains little respect from me. Women do it too...fill an empty space in their lives or what have you with sex. I hear it all the time..."it's fun"...blah blah blah...sure it is...I enjoy it as well as the next lady. But...truth is...I'm not the dating type (if infact you're looking for sex immediately)...I'm more of the long term relationship type...even marriage type. I want someone who appreciates the fact that I haven't slept around...and I'd like to think that I'd meet a man that has done the same.

That's not to say I look down upon those who have slept with many many people in their lives...it's all about choice. Just as this question states...does it matter? To me...yes. To most...No. But then again...to contradict what I said...if I met the greatest guy ever...and he had been with what I thought was too many girls in his past...would I pass him because of it? Not sure....Guess I'm just confused damnit *sigh*

nancy

:wiggle: To me it doesn't matter, as long as they are clean * no luggage* who cares. What's the differance between being with some person and having sex every week for a few years verses having differant lovers and practicing safe sex. Just a thought, and I don't think it's right to bring forward the past. I feel it is that and always that, the past unless it's pertinant to the relationship. Nancy

hippiboy

For the longest time, i refused to date anyone who had many sexual partners. But as the time pass by i reallized that it really doenst matter how many partners they had. As long as you are the only one...

ishkabum

kinda. i don't want a slut.

alien37

It makes a difference because it reveals their values and character. Thats important information.

Of course the most important question is how many people they have slept with while they were supposed to be with you...

dscallaway69

I would have to say it doesn't really bother me. The only thing is if you live in a small town and every time you go out you run into someone your SO slept with. I don't know that I could handle that. Yes I know they are with you now and all of that stuff, but come on. I still have that thinking that they just never were with anyone else. Call me naive. and there is no way in hell i want my girl going on john did it like this and it was great and when bob did this i loved it. no way in hell i could deal with that