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Is there a way to pick up on a faked orgasm by a girl? The one I'm sleeping with now says she's cum during sex, but from my (probably very skewed from porn) idea of how this 'shows' on the girl's face/body language/etc. I'm still unsure...
This seems kind of a dumb question now that I'm reading it over, but still it's a self-confidence in bed/am i big enough/good enough related question. Some pointers on how to Sherlock this shit would be great,thanks!

skept

You know.. probably doesn't answer your question but.... It doesn't matter if you or her orgasm or not... its all about if you guys are satisfied with your sex life...

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Queso

nearly all women in porn fake it, it's an acting job, so I wouldn't go by anything I saw on that. That and everyone's different when it comes to that, different facial expressions and what not so she really could be having an orgasm even with a straight face. I'd think it'd be pretty easy to fake though if she knew what she was doing. Does her vagina clench when she does it? Involuntary spasms down there are a tip off of an orgasm.

oh, and being 'big enough' doesn't really matter a whole lot. You can have a huge wang but if you don't have the right motion it won't get it done

fmb

I have to agree with skept and Queso on this one! If you're both satisfied, what does it really matter? Yes, it's very easy for us guys to have an orgasm; women have a more difficult time achieving an orgasm.

Remember, men are primed and ready within seconds. A woman needs a little more time to reach the same point as a man. Lots of foreplay, kissing, and fun will go a long way toward helping her reach the same point as you. If you want her to get there, it'll take some work from you.

Get to know her likes and dislikes. Learn by listening to her and watching her reaction to things. She like it? Remember it for use another time. Dislike it? For now, leave that technique or act alone. In the end, don't expect her to have an orgasm every time you're together.

Queso

and if all else fails, go down on her.

some girls don't or can't get off from sex (i.e. penis thrusting) at all. A little oral, and practice, and i'm sure she won't be faking it

Juan.©amaney

Uuum, I'm not allowed to say why I know this, but not all girls in porn fake it.

However, thinking that porn is an addequate representation of what real sex is, is like watching Rambo and thinking some senior citizen can take on a bunch of dudes and live.

If she says she came, she came. You don't need to worry any more about that. Just get yours while pleasing her and be done with it. If she starts complaining, then you start to worry about it. Quit rocking the fucking boat.

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cm8

I fake it all the time with my husband, I have only 1 orgasm with him and it was when he used his mouth! He pleasures himself more than he takes care of me so when we even attempt to make love, I don't get wet sometimes, I used to want it all the time but he denies me that pleasure so I have learned to get it else where

Juan.©amaney

far be it from me to tell a woman to stay faithful, but did you try to talk to him first?

Take heed dudes...take care of your woman AND yourself, for women DO seek elsewhere.

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CD

You can always talk to him about that. If he doesn't listen or attempt to make a change, then you can take the next step... but until that time, I don't suggest going out and getting new ass.

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fmb

This thread has brought up some good points. As juan and CD have posted, if you don't pay attention to the woman in your life, she may look elsewhere for the attention and approval she needs. The biggest point: listen to her and try to incorporate her needs.

This can be pretty simple and make both people happy. Mostly, it doesn't take much, just a little effort.

gen. cutter

rule number one: the majority, if not ALL women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm.

the pornos and erotic stories are all lying about women that get off from jack hammer fucks. penetration does not do it. if shes cumming from fucking, she's probably faking it. there's an exception to every rule, but this one is so universal it ranks up there with girls who can orgasm from breast play, ie: very rare.

women who fake orgasms mystify me. why? if you lover thinks you came he wont try to give you a real orgasm AND he wont learn how to really please you. that means YOU dont get pleasured. how fun is that?

my advice (if you care about honesty and being a good lover) is: call her bluff. tell her you know from experience (lie, i guess) that she's probably not orgasming with just penetration. and if she's ready to be an adult about sex, you two can move to the next level of sex: mutual satisfaction, and then spiritual. don't cheat yourself.

jeffc574

Everyone has given you sound advice so far, let me add a bit.

First, ask her. Tell her you want her to enjoy sex as much as you do.
Second, do not compare your life with porn. Are you dating a porn star? Didn't think so.
Third, Try going down on her until she comes. Is it the same as with your dick? I have found that the tounge (or at least my tounge) does a better job of getting her off.

Lastly, she is not lying to you. She is making you happy. 'I am working late...' when she is at a club with some other guy is lying to you.

maggiesdragons

I don't know if this is true from most women, but for me when I am orgasming, my muscles down there contract and pretty hard if its a really good orgasm. if she is like me, then you should be able to feel that with your penis if you are in her.

Queso

that can be faked pretty easily as well though. some girls might not think of that though