corruptino

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well i dont really know who else to turn to, this group of people seems to give good advice, so i figured id try it. When i was with a girl a while ago, we both gave up our virginity for each other, but everytime we would have sex, she would get no pleasure out of it, simply pain. We did it missionary most of the time because when she would try cowgirl style, she said it hurt too much for it to go in. Im not huge, but i figured it still had something to do with myself. upon some more research, i found that most guys are bent up, i on the other hand, bend down. Is this the reason for the pain she has? or is it something with her? Am i suppost to deal with hurtting girls like this for the rest of my life? As a side note, she was the last girl i had sex with


thanks for the help

bbhutia

lube lube lube lube lube. are you using any? That could definitely help. Otherwise I would say to go really slow and let her lead and get relaxed and comfortable. That way she can go at whatever pace and angle? is best.

Green Eyes

Ditto.

Lots of lube when the girl is a virgin or near virgin. The comment about letting her get comfortable is also a good tip.

Manning1985

I have the bend down too, good news is that Doggystyle, and reverse cowgirl will be very pleasurable for women if you are big enough do to the fact that upon penatration you will be tapping their G-spot

pinstripes

I agree with Green Eyes. It takes some girls to get more comfortable than others - just give it time, and as long as you communicate openly with each other, you should be fine

travcook

Give it time, go slowly at first, and use lots and lots of lube. My first was a virgin as well, and it didn't start getting good for her until like, the 4th or 5th time. Then they get used to it, and relax, and you're off to the races.

Juan.©amaney

fuck lube. just break her in right. give it to her hard and quit caring if it hurts. after you break them in right, you're gold and she'll thank you

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ey2289

ahahah juan that has to be the funniest response ever.
but seriously, ask her to tell you to stop, go further in and ask if its ok, it will get better.

elfoozo

Uh no... if she's still having pain you didn't pop the cherry all the way either due to no size or gentle caring. Get yourself an oversized dildo and a rubber mallet and pound that fucker in. Save that foreplay shit for later rounds. You've got a hole to hog out.

Juan.©amaney

I wasn't trying to be. See:




When women are virgins, its easier to break them in once real well. That way they hurt once or twice and then enjoy the rest. Otherwise they get this thing in their head that sex is unpleasurable and grow up to be scared or turned off about it. Anyone who has taken V cards and stuck around afterwords knows the importance of the hymen needing tearing.

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pizzat369

practice practice practice....and lube lube lube...and more practice...and some more lube....did i mention lube and practice?