socceradm

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I just met this girl and we hooked up and whatnot, but she doesn't shave. I don't really know her that well, so is there any way to bring it up without sounding like a total asshole?

MoreCowBell

There really is no way to bring it up other then coming out and talking about it directly. The best you can do is sit down and talk to her about it, tell her it makes you a little uncomfortable and tell her it would be a lot more appealing if she did shave.

Honest and straight-forward FTW!

kpeeze

I agree with MoreCowBell. You just have to ask her point blank. I've found success telling girls that I prefer it because it is nicer to go down on, and she'll definitely reap the rewards of having a smooth kitty.

Don't personally understand why all girls don't shave/wax. I could understand if they have a long drought, and don't think they'll be getting any attention down there, but if they are hooking up with someone, I don't understand why they don't take care of it. Good of you to be pushing for it, but keep in mind that you may need to be willing to reciprocate if you don't all ready keep your boys closely shorn.

socceradm

Thanks for the advice. I already keep my equipment shaved and trimmed down, so I don't see it a problem for her to do the same.

MoreCowBell

Same here..........but just make sure your not to authoritative or demanding. You more or less have to ask her nicely, and if she flat out says no, then drop it before you make her mad and/or embarassed.
(I.e - dont make her feel like that unless she shaves, shes unattractive and useless)

socceradm

Yeah good point. What I'm thinking I'm going to do is bring up a conversation about my turn ons and her turn ons, and say that I can't resist a girl that shaves - or something like that.

kpeeze

I can't deal with a hairy beaver. I'll be a little patient, but if she won't get after it soon and shave/wax/laser that shit off, then I'll throw her back into the sea. For some guys it may be a preference, but for me it is manditory. When with a girl with a hairy beaver, I've found that ultimatums don't usually work, so I try to be nice. But if they don't get after it, I tell them their hair is gone or I am. Only had one girl who wouldn't take care of it - and I figure if she is that reluctant to satisfy a minor request, then she probably isn't going to be as much fun in other areas, in which case I wouldn't want to be with her anyways. Just me, but that's my 2 cents.

socceradm

Well put. It's mandatory for me as well. I just met this girl and I wasn't about to say "okay get off, you don't shave" in the middle of everything. That just would have been a little awkward.

kpeeze

It actually isn't the worst pillow talk. If you couch it with something like "i think you're beautiful, and I really want to see more of it...i really like it smooth down there, would you be willing to take care of it because the smoother it is down there the more i like to be down there and the better it is for you..." You get the idea. It works pretty well. Sometimes being very nice, but persistent is best. You just have to feel it out. Good luck, and hopefully we'll have another girl get the clue that pubes are not acceptible.

cruisin76

I like when a girl shaves her beaver smooth but leaves a nice tuft of hair above it for visual stimulation, especially brunettes. I just like the way it looks and how the color of her skin will contrast with the color of her hair.

I can't understand how some of you would actually dump a girl because she you can't get her to shave her bits! That's just funny IMO.

starky

They all looks better shaved in my opinion too.

Cinnamon

Ok, doesn't shave at all or just not totally bald?

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smokeymoss1

Man, you can tell that I'm an old married fart. I didn't realize that it was so important nowadays for guys to have their girls slicked up. I never dated but one girl that completely shaved. Don't get me wrong, they all kept them well trimmed and especially so for the bikinis in the summer, but only one was slick. Now here is the funny part...I asked her not to shave it!!! The reason was that we had a pretty intense sexual relationship. I mean daily and several times daily. On the day she shaved, it was heaven. On the off days I suffered terrible stubble burn. She couldn't shave every day or that cute lil thing looked like a strawberry. She couldn't shave every day and I couldn't take it every other so, it was back to the old well trimmed beaver!!! I'm kinda like Crusin too, I'll vote for some well placed well trimmed tufts!!! Later, Smokey

clamsrus

probably not!

If it matters that much to you then you have the prob not her. They've been producing them that way for...............Oh about 6 million years....and they all work just fine.
Summer when she's tidying up for bikini time......offer to do the job! tell her it's a turn on! shout her a free wax and polish with an upgrade to a brazilian.......or get her to talk to kulotsalot

This type of topic falls in to the category of "Do you think I look fat in this dress?" dive for cover.....or if it matters to you be prepared to shed a girlfriend or two to get the prepubescent pu**y of your dreams.