dmu789

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Ok heres the deal Im trying to get my gf into watching porn with me. But I need to start off real slow so she doesnt go running for the hills. So that means no donkeys that gangbang midget kind of stuff. There are lots of choices out there but I was hoping someone could recomend a nice adult video. It needs to be straight sex and by that I mean 1 boy, 1 girl, and no anal stuff. There can be oral but I really need it to be kinda cookie cutter kinda stuff.

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So do you guys have any recomendations. Oh yeah and it needs to be made in the last decade. I have no interest in watching 70's porn.

Thanks for any input you have in this area. Hopefully this slow tranistion will work for her.

BlackPearlSpace

Hmmm. Good luck.

Men have porn mags, women have romance novels.

Bear this in mind at all times during your search. What does it for us doesn't quite do it for them....

unlessssss........

This is the ubermega secret of the ancient riddle of Will you Watch Porn with me Baby?

Doesn't matter what's in the porn, although you're right, keep it vanilla to not spook the skittish female. All that matters is: is she already horny?

Picture this: its Sunday morning, you're a bit hung over, so after breakfast, you take a nice stroll outside. The breeze is fresh and crisp, and blows up the earthy smell of the thawing spring ground. This is a time when the vestiges of winter still dominate, yet the bright green regrowth of spring pokes tiny joyful holes through this dismal gray dust of winter. Up ahead, you hear children laughing and playing. You stop, and take the most wonderful spring breath...

*scatching record on a turntable sound* (eeeerrrrirrippptttpt)

"UHRG UHRG UHRG YEAH FUCK ME YEAH OOOOH" Close up of a dripping pussy getting pounded by cock.

Okay, did you get that? That's what its like for them, like getting hit by a train out of nowhere. It's not like us, we see porn and we're like, hmm, that's hot, hey now I'm horny. Eihn eihn. Doesn't work like that for them. Unless.....

You need to get her horny first. I'll leave this up to you. Don't think visual, think security and intimacy. Take it from there. I have all kinds of sarcastic suggestions I'm just DYING to suggest, but this isn't the BOTH, so I'll limit it to just this one: get a better job. Although meant as a biting commentary on male/female relationships, this will ACTUALLY work. So will putting in lots of time listening to her go on about whatever. But you can't be insincere for this stuff, this isn't the everyday nodding your head at the right moment kinda listening. You have to hear her, you dig?. please don't delete my snappy comments Kulots

So, get her all worked up in a romance novel kinda way (maybe buy one out of those bins at the flea market for theme ideas) Although it would be horrible to read, you may learn some good lessons. Just think, as you read that sappy bullshit, it's like flippin pages in Playboy for some chick somewhere. No wait, don't use anything out of the book unless your gf is 40 plus. Modern girls may not dig the heavy romance crap. Now I'm rambling.

As for the porn itself. There are couple's porn sections at the porn store. Try that. I've never, but I imagine its like soft porn, that "goes all the way" Prolly lots of buildup as to who everyone is.

Oh, and be prepared to face the dilema of having your girl look at you to see if you're watching the porn still, or her, after things start up between you. I'm assuming that's the plan. To both enjoy it? This can ruin everything.

If your goal is to just share how cool porn is with her, and hey check this out and do you like her tits and stuff, this may be easier. Or harder, she may watch it for a bit, but you have to separate it from you and her getting it on, if this is what you want. But you will never get a "buddy" to both watch the same porn and both get off on it, then turn to each other and get it on. That prolly won't work at all. Scenario A: get horny, show couples pron, have sex. Has fairly good chance of success. Scenario B: share the wonderful world of pron with her in a hey-look at this kinda way, has a decent chance, depending on her, and Scenario C: where you both watch porn the way you do by yourself, only you do it together, has no change whatsoever of working....

unless....


Good luck

bakaduin

Haha start off with the movie "Unfaithful". Its not porn but boy does it get girls going.

Anibal

my gf doesnt like porn, she has watched a couple of movies with me but she didnt enjoy them so i never did that again. I'd advice a really softcore flick, maybe the tugjobs series (they dont have sex its only hj but it could be good to introduce her to the pron stuff).

Boston

dmu, have you talked to her about this? How does she act when you guys are watching a sex scene in an R rated movie? You really should talk to her & make sure she's comfortable with the situation. Some girls think porn is completely disgusting & others girls get totally turned on by it. It’s a tough thing to just try to surprise your gf w/ some porn & might result in less action for you. Porn doesn’t replace the real thing, keep that in mind. Good luck & I hope it works out for you.

P.S. If there is anything I can supply you with if things go well, just PM me.

Bigeme

I actually recently went through this. We actually were talking about masturbation for some reason and she started asking questions. I started telling her about like porn and why I look at it. She went on to tell me her sister and her husband got into a fight because he had some porn. I laughed and told her that porns alright and offered to watch some with her. After a little bit of persuasion she gave in and i put one on.

We spent the first half just like laughing at how rediculous it was and me telling her how much prettier she is than the porn stars. After a while we uh stopped watching and thats about it. All in all I wouldn't say watching porn together is such a great thing. All it is is a distraction and the last thing i want to do is get caught watching porn while I'm with her. But who knows, we're both young and we haven't been together that long so times my change.

jeffc574

First, you may need to face it that she may not ever watch porn with you. I would try some NC-17 rated movies that are more romantic than sexy. Something like Emmanuelle. Some of the playboy movies might be good as well.

I have never had agf who was into porn. Sorry.

dmu789

Well I had planned on starting out slow with a transition. Im planning on taking baby steps. Thats why I need real vanilla type porn. Thanks for your input guys Im going to keep looking around some.

wudluv

There's an older movie, from the 80's I think, called Thief of Hearts. Try to find it because it has a really nice romance story line and some hot sex scenes. I know it got me turned on when I saw it with my boyfriend.

And Boston is right, you need to talk to her before getting any real porn. Just springing it on her in the middle of things might not be a very good idea.

Personally I like watching porn. I also like to use it when I am not really in the mood for sex. I just pop in my boyfriends favorite Briana Banks video and five minutes later I am free to go do the dishes.

dmu789

I know this is supposed to be a serious category but thats just a funny quote. 5 minutes later... lol man I hope so....

jeffc574

check out some titles at goodvibes.com. They are a San Francisco sex shop that caters to women. I tried a google on porn for women, but did not like the first few I hit.

agc

What about the "Red Shoe Diaries" (I think that's right) from the early '90's. I think it was on Cinemax or Showtime, something like that. Pretty tame stuff, but gets the point across. Just my .02.

zeppy

Yeah, I've tried this with the g/f too... doesnt always go so well. Things like the Emanuelle series (as mentioned before) and other softcore things worked. Then however, I made the mistake of renting one of the 'Girls of the OC' series. (Mainly cuz the g/f digs the show "The OC" ) Needless to say, it was far more hardcore than I expected. Some of the scenes made the g/f look like she was going to hurl.


So, yeah, two rules:

#1... pay attention to what you rent

and

#2.... pay attention to what you rent. seriously!

Bigeme

Gaw. Seriously why do women have such a problem with porn? I really don't get it. I spent a good half an hour last night trying to explain why I look at porn and how I don't think less of her because of it.