duckykiss

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I've always been a very horny person. I started masturbating around age 7, and have continued to do so at least daily since then. I didn't become sexually active until I was 18, and ever since I've always wanted it more than the guys I'm with. Pretty much, whenever me and my SO are "home alone" that's all I can think about... My current boyfriend laughs at me because he'll be sitting on the couch with a beer, and I'll be yelling from the bedroom for him to "COME CUDDLE ME!" "I NEED A HUG!" "LET'S DO IT!" I rarely get turned down, but since the first time we had sex, I have always been the one to initiate - he's never really had the opportunity... And I like to have sex around four times a day, if possible. I've never had a complaint (ok well yes a certain ex husband who went from once every other day to thinking more than once a week was just plain gross), but I'm just wondering:

How many of you ladies feel like you can't get enough, and get teased because of your sexual appetite?

kulotsalot

Even if I were as voracious as you (which I'm not) it won't do me any good because my bf and I are in an LDR. The best we can possibly do is a week-long marathon followed by a six-month dry spell. Not the best situation, but hey, what can you do?

CD

You are going to have a hard time finding a guy that is capable 4 times a day. Sure it sounds good to me, but I know that after 2 days I'm going to need a seriously long nap and penis-recoupment. The problem is that it's just plain hard work to do it right, let alone do it right 4 times a day. The best woman out there know how to dispense of the love, because too much and it loses its magic... too little and there could be problems.

Yes, I know I'm not a girl, but this was a great post and I thought it could use a little insight from webrat's resident psychic.

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Anibal

humm its difficult to keep up with a 4 times a day sexual appetite... in my case theres law school and work, i couldnt imagine making time for that. It will be difficult for you to find a guy with the time and sexual stamina to keep up with you... and look forwar for it every single day

i realize that by righting this i have been of no help to you ... sorry about that

Best of luck with and to the man you are know

theworldismytoy

I would have to say that I got lucky and found a guy who is pretty on par with my attention needs so to speak. Whenever I want it, he's there, and the same is true in the other direction, as often they coincide.(however we haven't ever made it to 4 times a day, that is if you are talking stricktly sex, getting eachother off is a different story) The only real problem is that I am in the same boat as kulotsalot (LDR)...

I think in general alot of times women are more hungry than they are ever willing to let themselves be. In our society I think women are brought up thinking that sex isn't something they should be into, if they are then they are a slut and no one wants that...I know it took me sometime to come to terms with the fact that I could have sex, get what I wanted out of it and enjoy it and alot of that I tribute to the fact that my boyfriend was willing to talk to me about all of it and reassure me. I have learned alot about myself thanks to him.

JacksonAces

^^^geeze, I'm blushing here....

Yeah, world and I don't exactly get to 4 per day, but then again, if you gave us a day without interruptions, I think we would come close.

Truth be told, I agree with World, women in this day and age are really strained to talk about sex, and though I see the popular opinion slowly changing, I for one feel that sexuality is nothing to be judged for. I got lucky to find World, though to find her, I had to go through one of her friends, let's call her "T", who was completely opposed to talking about anything relating to sex. She still is. And she calls herself a hippie. Geeze....

Of course, her embarrasment at talking about it was not enough to stop her from cheating on me while we were in an LDR.

I think there is an interesting comparison here. It seems that because World has an outlet in talking for those feelings, she is less distant in our LDR than T ever was. And, as T grew more distant, she cheated more. I know World doesn't, and she knows that I don't, and I think the fact that we are open about everything in the sexual part (and all the other parts as well) of our relationship, we are better able to stay together, and stay close.

Well, now that I have gone completely off-topic, let me say this:
SEX IS AWESOME!!!! GET AS MUCH AS YOU CAN BEFORE YOU DIE!!!!
(disclaimer: sex with a person you love is sooo much more awesome, it is worth waiting through dry spells for)


Ok, enough from me.


~jack

OrdinaryGirl

Finding someone who has a sexual appetite and drive similar to your own is, in my mind, as important as being compatible on other levels. However, it's different for us as women because we can always be ready to go, whereas, as Clem stated, it would a physical challenge for most men to be ready to go four times a day.

I also agree with him about it losing its magic. There ARE benefits to holding off. Anticipation and buildup can be a really great thing. And turn the tables for a moment...how would you feel if your man was in the bedroom calling you to leave whatever you were doing because he wanted to fuck you every time you turned around? Sensuality is found in more than just intercourse. Some of the best sex I have had is after a couple days of holding off and wanting it so badly.

Worse comes to worse, you can always take care of yourself. Break out the batteries, girl.

bigpat12

Well I would tell you what I could keep up! Matter of fact I am having this problem now with my girl. Except she is the opposite of you. And I am like you. Four times a day would soot me fine and I don't think it would get boring at all cause the more you would the more you would open up to things....but that is my take and I totallly agree with OG. It is something like food or rock climbing to biking if it is what you like and want to do I believe eventually you will look for it in him or someone else...that is my problem I am in search behind her back and I want to talk aboout it but in my household its like it is cmedy central...and all guys blah blah blah...but Good luck in your hunt!!!!!!!!!!

Bigeme

Well, I think I can agree here. From Friday night at midnight until Sunday night at midnight we had sex 12 times. All except the first two on friday night and the one on saturday morning were initiated by her. I am more than a willing participant, but it gets difficult at times. I try to explain to her that its going to take a long time by the end of the night, but she seems okay with that.

The only problem I really had was last night we were going at it and had left the tv on and I got distracted. So I started to like glance over whenever something would happen and she accused me later of not getting the same pleasure out of sex that she does. I tried to explain that I just can't go 12 times in 48 hours after like a week when we did it on average twice a day.

I love her dearly, but I gotta say I'm kind of excited that shes going home this weekend so I can get a little rest.

wudluv

I am so lucky to have found the guy I am dating. We are to much alike at times. Six years together now and its still like we just met each other. He works out of state mostly so I sometimes go days without seeing him, then he will have a few weeks off maybe. It's like we can look at each other, not say a word, and we both know we are gonna have sex very soon. I get all goose pimply and its like a little electric tingle I feel in my belly.

Some days when he knows hes not gonna be doing anything he likes to invite me over in the morning. He will serve me breakfast in bed, give me a massage and make slow passionate love to me all day long. Its a great experiance having your man treat you like a sex goddess and tend to your every need and whim for hours on end. He will prop up pillows for me and hand feed me. He will pour me as much wine as I want. His best so far has been 5 ejaculations in a day but usually only 2 or 3.. But his massages and his oral technique more than keep me satisfied.

Then hes off on a jet someplace for another week or so. And I am back to my twice a day vibrating lover. I get with my girl friend a few times a week also so its not all that lonesome for me. Shes a most understanding lover.

But I still gotta have sex at least twice a day (minimum, 4 or 5 times prefered) or I am in a constant state of horniness. And sometimes Mike just cant keep up, as much as I know he wants to. Some nights when hes around I still end up getting myself off. But thats ok, he enjoys watching sometimes. I am just so damn lucky to have found someone who loves me like he does even though he knows I am a fetish freak at heart.
He has never complained or teased me about my sex drive even though I want it far more than he does. But hes, a few times, simply rolled over, opened the night stand drawer, pulled out a vibrator, and said Honey I am tired tonight, here ya go. See you in the morning.

salamander

I also have a very high sex drive. It's great to have marathon sessions and to go at it a few times a day. It's also pretty great to to hold off and let the horniness build until you can't stand it anymore and then throw him down! It doesn't have to end in orgasm every time either.

rick8319

i have the exact same problem with my girl, i must be an animal