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My girl is a virgin and so am I. I want to know if and when to tell when she is ready. Sometimes I think she wants to but is too afraid. How do I assure her that it is okay?

skycatcher

You don't. When she's ready to have sex she will let you know. The first time can be very scary if both parties involved are inexperienced but can also be very enjoyable since you will be sharing your firt time with each other.

Sit down with her and talk about it. Ask her how she feels about having sex with you. In my opinion both of you should be mature enough to have an adult conversation face to face if you're going to have sex with each other.

Even if it may seem awkward, be serious and just ask her how she feels. Don't avoid the subject and be mature about the topic.

umpire00

I've got to agree with skycatcher, the only way to know for sure is to talk about it

ndawg104

Can't rush it man. Take it easy and the time will come when she is ready. And you both will have a good time

afitchgirl

I agree. No rushing allowed. She will let you know when she's ready and make sure you know.

Anibal

u said u think sometimes it seems like she is ready .... all u can do is make her a nice dinner and just talk about it, she will let u know when she is ready (trust me she knows u are ... we guys always are and she knows that) so i agree with the other guys. Take it easy and wait, its worth the while.
Good Luck

eframe

Don't rush!! you'll hear that alot, my advice is rush, if you're waiting for that perfect moment , you know, when she creams herself dry rooting you, lights ,music .. all the shit , well if you wait for all that to happen your first root might not be a virgin!!!!!

cosmokez

mate just go for it and she will enjoy it and won't more !

sheplers118

Dont rush buddy... Your girl wont liked being pressured! So Yes just Talk to her about it

WEme

q? how far have you gone with her so far...might want to try that and build up to the sex part once you both are comfortable with each other...might help with the nerves part.

OrdinaryGirl

If you aren't comfortable enough with each other to talk about it, then you aren't ready to do it. Once you talk about it together, you'll both feel much more at ease, whether you decide to go forward or to wait. You don't want to play a guessing game about this and have one of you feeling obligated to go faster than they are comfortable with.

Just talk. Communication is so important in any relationship.

mo08010

Dont rush her... i kno from experience.... my boyfriend talked to me about it.... and i felt more comfrontable.... he waited and i eventually came around.... so take it slow