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my boyfriend lasted 5 strokes the first time we did it (his virginity) and then the 2nd time, i gave him a blow job and he lasted like 3 minutes or so... i moved out of the country not long after that and we never got to do it again til now, but i couldnt help but wonder... are most guys like that the first time around (i've heard all about it being his first and he just got too excited and all), or do u think it's gonna linger? Kinda got me worried, since i'm pretty difficult to please in bed...

tkd_guy01

Yeah, I think that's pretty normal for a guy to go early his first time. He'll last longer over time and with more 'practice'. Ever watch American Pie?? That whole bit about going in his pants without any physical stimulation is overly exaggerated. That's not 'normal' for a guy but it does happen.

firepixie

Yeah I wouldn't worry about it. He just needs to be desensitized. It'll get better after a while.

Brungage

To be honest my first time for completely the opposite. I don't know whether the problem was me or her performance.

Mule_Hammer

I didn't cum my first time, I was too nervous. The girl I was with knew what she was doing. However, with the next girl I dated, I came within minutes the first time I slept with her, but she was a lot hotter, and better.

tkd_guy01

Guess I'm lucky, never had a problem. I did enough research ahead of time for experience

KarlMiller132

I really never lasted too long with my first girlfriend. She never seemed too into it and times i did last awhile, shed ask if i was ever gonna go, haha. Anyway, i find that still once in a while if im real horny and just not expecting it, itll happen faster, or if its in the morning, guys typically go much quicker. Just tell him to take slow deap breaths and vocalize insteasd of taking short breaths or holding his breath, sounds stupid but it makes a difference. Basically hes probably nervous and just thinking"dont cum dont cum..." which makes you go 100 times faster.

nickolas

meep, maybe something to do with the word "boring".

speegs

Strap a rubber on him

Anibal

it MAY be a problem but it is most likely to not be one. It is a fact that guys the longer they have relations with the same girl, last longer and get better its simple: we get to know her, what she likes what she likes, we also get to know ourselves, when to slow down, when to change the position, when to speed up, etc. The more time u spend with him the better it will get, im pretty sure he wil satisfy u (unless you dont have good chemistry for have sex... it happens, some couples are great in bed and are bad in the romantic department, some are the opposite) but that doesnt sound to be the problem i wouldnt be worried if i where u. Just give him time and with practice he will get better and better. Good Luck

viperxiv

Yah... takes time. He has to do some reasearch of his own on the subject.

Be supportive! Show him that you ejoy what is happening so far and are willing to work on it with him, otherwise it will be 10x harder for him.

JacksonAces

well, I really wouldn't worry about it. My first time, we were at my gf's family's house, and I lasted all of about 5-10 min. The second time, however, in my dorm room, we were going strong for a good 45 min to an hour.

One thing I have noticed, though, is that the atmosphere affects performance as much as anything. For my girlfriend and I, if we are somewhere where there is a chance of getting caught (by parents, friends, or whatnot), then I have found I don't perform as well. I heard once that the male brain can sometimes mis-interpret regular anxiety as sexual tension, causing the the guy to not last as long. Don't remember where I heard that though.

~jack

OrdinaryGirl

I think that's pretty typical for a first time. You're lucky you got five strokes; I only got three with my first. It does get better.

inimyaudi

true that. or whiskey's always good. of course then you might be making an over-correction