YerKiddin

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I'm going nuts.

I've always wanted to be an exhibitionist around women. I don't want to offend anyone, so surprising ladies at a bus stop or something is out, so I've never actually gotten around to showing off. It did help that most pictures of guys I've ever seen online seem to be guys who are bigger than I am, below the belt. (I've always kinda thought I was just a bit on the small side of average) I managed to get to 42 years old and married without ever having exposed myself.

This was all just fine until a friend of mine happened to see me nude and just a little aroused, under a sheet. When that came up in conversation later, she was pretty insistant that I was actually a bit bigger than average. I went from not really thinking about it to having a hard time *not* thinking about it. Part of me seems to want to kick myself for never showing, and now that I'm married, showing off naked isn't a good thing.

I'm hoping this will just sort of fade in a few days. (the conversation with my friend insisting I was big just happened Saturday)

jeffc574

I feel as if I have to ask, " How did a female friend see you nude in a bed?" You may try leaving the window blinds in a more open position and being "careless" after a shower. Have you ever shared your fantasy with your wife? She may be able to help.

jamie89

tell your wife about it and she can probably help ypu

umpire00

I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. This will go away if you can just forget that it even happened.

YerKiddin

Heh. The funny thing is that I am working mentally on just getting over this. The friend that saw me was a massage therapist. (We talk very openly and quite a bit)

My wife has never dated anyone else before me. She's already had some jealousy issues, so I don't think I'm going to bring it up to her, believe-it-or-not.

Heck, I'm not even sure the friend knew what she was talking about.

Lucky13

I'm pretty sure massage therapists know what they're talking about when it comes to the naked body.

YerKiddin

A quick note to any admin: If this post should have been in "Bottom of the hole", feel free (if possible) to move it there. This seemed like something I could put here when I started it, but if you feel otherwise, I won't argue. (nor will I feel particularly ashamed, as this is the first post I ever started)