Threesome
 

Ive been offered the chance to have a threesome, unfortunately not with 2 girls, but a married couple. There well up for it, and i am. Has any ever done it, or would do it?
Good idea or not?

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If you are friends with one or both of them, I'd stay away from it, just in case the relationship sours and they think that you caused trouble. How comfy are you being naked with another guy? Lay down ground rules i.e. no sexual contact between you two, what you're allowed to do to his wife, what's NOT allowed, etc. Get checked and make sure all three of you are clean. Whether it's a good idea or not, I don't know, but someone else can answer that particular question, I guess.

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I've done it. MMF is actually not as "gay" or "awkward" as people think it is. If you are friends with them, despite what Kulots says, I'd say go for it if you all are REALLY close but make sure, no matter if she really wants you, to NEVER go one on one with her...it breaks the rules. It helps more when you are good friends with the guy and not so much with the girl just cuz guys are territorial. Just remember you are there as a team and rotation is key.

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One thing I've always found amusing, is when people post serious questions to total strangers (and at 4 posts you are a total stranger to us as well as vice versa). There are usually so many variables in situations such as yours that I think nobody here could give good advice. And with 2.5 sentences, there isn't much we can go by. As far as your question of is it a good idea or not, I'm going to say that you probably know better then us, if it's a good thing. We can however shed light on possible consequences or benefits since a few among us have probably been in that situation. But once again, all 3-somes are not the same... good luck.

(more detailed information next time would go a long way)

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not much else I can add to this.. ^^ pretty much covered it... however based on experience its kind of intimidate'n in the beginning if its your first time... just take it slow and it will unfold naturally. But most importiantly dont allow yourself to be put in position (no pun intended) that makes you uncomfortable.

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OK, well we spoke on the net after they asked me after seeing a profile.
I have never done it, but am not bothered about other blokes. They know i dont want him to get to fiendly with me ect ect. She say he very up for it, and so is she. we've spoke on the phone, and arranged a date. I they dont seem physcos, and i think it will be good, but am obviously anxious. wondered if anyone else had done it, and it had gone horribly wrong.

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Duuuude, don't do it. If you don't know them and they found you on the internet it doesn't sound like a good idea! They could rob you, give you STD's, murder you, kidnap you....its not worth it.

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Never met them in person then? So you've no idea what kind of people they really are.
I have done it, in a MFF, with 2 girls i knew. We were all really drunk though, and our friendship suffered quite a bit from it afterwards. Its up to you in the end, as you dont really know them that well, it could make it easier or a lot worse.

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No. Marriage is marriage and no matter what you must try to keep the sanctity of it - reject their offer.

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Sounds like a set-up to me. To even consider doing this I would have to at least know the people involved. If I were you I would forget about this, find a nice girl and have nice one on one sex, or if you want a threesome, find a couple you know that is into that stuff.

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:werd:

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Uh, ok.

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i have done this before a few times and the only problem i had was once it turned in to me doing the guys wife while he sat back and watched which was strange as it didnt start out that way. It started to feel as though he got upset because she was paying more attention to me which at first wasnt a problem but i would look over at him and he would give me some strange looks.

just be careful if you do

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That's creepy, if they're swingers who just look for love on the net all the time you don't know what they've got, AIDS, herpes, you name it. Definitely steer clear, plus how fun can it be with another guy anyway? IF you're going to do threesomes on the net at least find 2 chicks. It could be dangerous as well, although I assume they're just looking for e-love, still though, if you're going to be pulling out and switching a lot a condom won't provide you adequate protection (for my standards anyway) so don't do it.