watzizname

I've done the 3-way thing more than once, and i've gotta say (from my experience) its way over rated.
Any & all relationships i found myself in, up till about the age of 25, were physical, any hint of an emotional attachment & i was running for the hills.. yeah, stereotypical bloke or what.

My first 3-way happened when i was in my mid 20's, and at first, it was like a dream come true.
Pauline mentioned in conversation that she'd had a few bi sexual experiences & what did i think about her friend sarah?
Being carefull, not to burn my bridges, but wanting my cake etc, i said, i guess i'd be willing to try something new, provided she was really sure..
Anyway, it happened, lots of times (will spare you the details) and it was great, for at least 6 months.
Then one night, something happened, that i really wasn't expecting, i started to feel jealous.. seeing them being so intimate with each other, hurt like i never believed it could.
Yeah, thats right, i had (at last) become emotionaly involved & for the first time ever, found myself stressing over a situation, that most blokes would give their right nut to be in ..

I think that if it had happened when i was younger, it really wouldn't have been a problem, just another something to chalk up to experience.
These days, i'm a little more mature, with a clearer understanding of what my real needs are, and as such, i've found (for me anyway) the very thing i spent so much time avoiding, was the only thing truly worth pursuing.