Joeski

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Hello im new here, to webrats, and id like to say hello first,
now i was seeing this girl for about 7 weeks we hung out went to the dragway always had fun she spent the night with me a few times i stayed with her every thing "i thought was going great" then just BAM :lets be friends: hmm dang and. just wanted to vent a little. now im having trouble forgeting her she made me feel real good ive tried going to other women, drinking and just cant get her out of my head the only time i even stop thinking about it for a second is if im coding bf1942 mods or bf2

skept

Mate I say head up chin up and forget about her. She kinda left you high and dry at the part of the relationship where you guys seem invincible and will always be together. Truth be told - even though she might have been a great girl - when you really step back and look at it did you guys really have that much in common?

At this point in the relationship I believe you guys are still more at the 'wow' stage with each other instead of the nitty gritty. So instead of seeing it as a tough break - take it in a positive light. Alcohol will never solve the problem as won't going out hunting for new women straight away.

Make Joeski reconnect with Joeski and then go out and find another woman. Even though its 7weeks and that doesn't seem to be a long time - you are still hurting after this chick and the worst thing you can do is go out and hurt another girl because your on the rebound.

Lucky Bob

Man, .

Especially this part: "Truth be told - even though she might have been a great girl - when you really step back and look at it did you guys really have that much in common? "

Chameleon Grrl

i agree. anytime you find yourself single i believe it's so you can refocus on who you are and what you want from life. she'll be easier to let go if you take this opportunity to be selfish for awhile.

Juan.©amaney

If a person came in to your life, gave you some happy moments and left, they have served their purpose. If you can't see her as a friend after having those special moments, don't force yourself to do it; SPECIALLY if you are doing it with intent on stirring things back up. Better just to let things be.

Good luck, and give it some time, thing's will look up.

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Lazer

Head up, Move on! Lotsa other broads out there.

quando

Hold your head up joeski I feel your pain..this happened to me many years ago,but I spent about 3 years with her,and she left me in the same manor..

you will meet another woman,and she will make you forget...

Alderune

Basically what all these other guys said: Buck up and find out what works for you next. I mean i went from one girlfriend to another, because i ended up realizing that we didnt have much in common and the whole 'wow' effect had worn off. Then i went to a party and just started talking w/ a few girls i was introduced to, next thing i know i got someone who was much better.

A different point is: don't be in a hurry to get back to a relationship, enjoy some time w/ friends. Friends help the sting go away.

agent69foru

Hey whats up? Im new to the realm of wr, but any way keep your head up dude i had the same thing happen to me about a week ago. Everthing was going fine, she was so in to me i thought she was going to tell me she loved me. But then i started falling for her and she just breaks it off and that was after a straight month of sleeping with each other. I thought it was going good. But i had to get her out of my head, she had her reasons and i respect that. Any way try working out like some cardio its a great stress killer. All those mix feeling are a good source of energy. If your not into working out then take a cold shower and "CHARGE IT TO THE GAME".Theres lots of fish in the sea just cast your reel and be carefull where .