WR - View Single Post - need some advice

Ok guys, I've been in a relationship w/ my current girlfriend for just over a year and half now. I love her to death, we make each other happy, and overall its just great.

I am not a very confrontational or strong willed guy, and I know it. There have been a few times where something happened and maybe I couldn't step up to the plate for her, and I know it makes her feel terrible and me even worse. But this was a while ago; and I promised her if something like what happened ever occurred again, I would be there for her. And something like that recently happened (some guy she said was harassing her), and she told me about it, well, I know when and where I can confront the guy about it, so I make up my mind to do it then and there. Well, she misinterprets my relative outward indifference for not caring, and, when reliving the story to some friends, promptly informs them that I intend to do nothing.

I tell her that I do indeed intend to do something (as I formerly promised) and that she obviously has zero confidence in me. She goes off angry (and me as well).

I confront the guy as soon as I could, tell her that I took care of it, and immediately go home. She calls me later because I was mad and I tell her because she basically publicly degraded me and didn't care about it. She goes OFF on all my past mistakes, which pisses me off because I tell her she has to make a choice: she can either ACTUALLY forgive me for those things (and I am very sorry that I ever did them) and move on knowing that I've changed for the better or she can't. She starts crying, yells at me that she doesn't know what to think of me anymore. We haven't talked since (about 2 days ago), and I don't know what to do.

I am still mad, but I know I want to be with her. Its a question of if she wants to be with me; but it seems she just doesn't want to talk to me; I've tried talking to her at least 10 times since the fight and every time she just leaves.

Any ideas?... *sad*