morpheus8005

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Alright guys, as some of you may remember I have been going out with this girl for a little while now and I lost my virginity to her. The issue is that I am having some of the same problems that I have had from the begining. She is not reciprocating. I go down on her and she just will not take the inniative to do the same. I don't want to have to ask her! It should be(I would think obvious) that I want to get mine too. Now before anyone thinks me selfish I think sex should be about both people. I always make sure she gets hers, usually multiple times. It really bothers me that she seems to have no interest in my little soldier.

She spent the night last night and this morning we started messing around. I went down on her and she came what I figure to be like 3 times. Then when I was done she was content to just kiss me and caress me, and not even make a move towards my crotch. At this point I got upset and pissed. I waited a while and after her doing nothing I got up and made myself something to eat.

I didn't say much to her at all after I got up. She ended up leaving and she of course knew I wasn't too happy. She called me up after she left and asked me what was wrong and said that she just didn't feel comfortable leaving me on those terms. We talked about it and I told her when we are messing around it just doesn't feel like you are as into this as I am. It seems like once you get yours its cool to be done. I told her it felt like she wasn't into me in that way. She ended up telling me that I treat her the best shes been treated by a guy and how shes never had a guy give her their "full attention". I told her if she didn't want to be with me to let me know cause I would just move on. She said she wanted to be with me and agreed that sex needed to be about both people.

Now it would seem that the problem should be fixed, but why do I feel like its still broken? Am I not being agressive enough during sex? Should I be unzipping my pants whipping it out and telling her to suck? To me I want her to do it herself. To me it shows she wants it as much as I do....any thoughts would be greatly appreciated! I need some serious advice and thank you for reading my post if you have made it this far.