elbenio

Ok, So I think the best thing you can do in this situation is take things slowly. Everyone has a past, some more gruesome than others. But everyone is also entitled to move on from them, and learn from them. Maybe this is her time to deal and move on.
The flip side is that she hasn't. And believe me that can get ugly. If she hasn't, just because you treat her like a queen (if that is how you choose to do things), it won't mean she won't start freaking about how she thinks she is getting treated. I have that problem with my wife sometimes. No matter how I do things, I'm always doing something wrong.
The question will become how mush are you willing to take, and how much do you care about this woman. Bare in mind that you have really only just begun to know her. There could be a million reasons why things don't work out, and they are just as likely to get in the way before all of this does.
Take it slowly, figure out what you want, and what se wants. Then, if they are compatible, start thinking about addressing these issues together.

Hope that all makes sense