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Originally Posted by Juan.İamaney
You are more compatible with the one willing to sleep with you the easiest.
Seriously, if they are both virgins, and so are you....it's going to take a loooooooong time for either of you to lose the cherry. Be patient if you MUST lose it to either one of them. Either that or frat parties! Once a girl with good experience (ie whoreish) knows you are a virgin and is on the drunk side, she'll do the favor for ya!
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well this isn't really about loosing the cherry, i really don't care. and i don't have to loose it to either one. and i want to loose it to a girl i actually know and care about. and also she will be around longer so i can have sex more than just that one time and then not know when it will happen again. i have had the chance to loose it 2 times, both with a drunk friend and i turned them both down cuz for 1 of them i wanted to date her and didn't want to fuck it up, and the second was an old ex that had just broke up with her bf and had earlier in the lil make out session called me TJ (her x's name) so i didn't fuck her cuz i new she would regret it in the morning... which she did....
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Read the thread on "what age did you lose your virginity?" notice the stories there have a lof of people that just lost it to some nameless person at a party. The shyness might come from some other source tho...how's your self esteem? How comfy are you with being naked in front of people?
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and i used to be ubber shy during freshman and sophmore year of HS, then kinda came out of my shell during junior year, and came out more in my senior year. then last year at
college i came most of the way out of my shell... still ahve a lil while to go, sometimes i just can't strike up a convo with the people i would like too...... and so far as being neked in front of people, i wrestled... thats basicly enuf said right there.... tho i didn't start to take showers with the team untill sophmore year.... i was kinda saved my freshman year cuz i broke my wrist before the first meet i think.... so i have no problem with my body. im acutlaly just starting to realize how good it actually is. (im trying to get some pics for all the girls to
too :happycow: ) im not really saying that i will just strip down in front of all of my friends, but i have taken it all off up to my boxers before and have no problem doing it at all.....
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Follow your heart man..I know it sounds classic but it is the best thing to do...what do you think you should do?
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well to tell you the truth, i would like to go with girl 2... but kinda need to see if she is better for me, and see if she actually likes me or not... and i don't know if this is just bc she seems much more outgoing and and more of my type of girl.... argggg im just really don't want to dump girl 1 for girl 2 cuz it would completly crush girl 1... i hate being so nice...