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whore
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: home
Posts: 709/0.48
Threads: 5
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views on cheating...
this is my side of the story... i would like to say sorry to someone i have done harm.. i've been going out with this "girl" these past few days and i noticed that she is using me as her "back-up" plan just in-case she wouldn't end up with this "guy".. i got mad bcoz of this.. (i have a gf, i know this is the weird part!) so i told my gf about this coz we dont keep secrets.. now my gf is mad at me, saying that im guilty of cheating! AND I AGREE.. (i thought going out with someone is allowed if youre not doing anything romantic, but i began to like the "girl" in the process..) honestly, i didn't know that what i was doing was a form of cheating (until someone told me! i know im stupid..) what's done is done. i dont really know if my gf would give me another chance or not.. i know that most of you would call me an asshole.. i can take that, bcoz its true and its pointless to argue about it, i have made a mistake.. i posted this bcoz i want to say sorry and i hope you guys would take good care of my gf (if she still wants to be called that way).. i really dont love the other girl, i just like her, and i have no plans of replacing my gf.. cant you like someone so much while you are in a relationship?
i also dont know if posting my problem in this site would make her furious (another stupid idea). but i know you can give her advice and comfort.. its my way of saying thanks for all the care and attention you have given her.. i know she doesnt deserve an asshole like me, but i have realized how important she is to me and i want to make it up to her.. i just dont know how and when..
my sincere apologies for giving a hard time to "one of your favorite girls" in this site.. she has tough decisions to make, please pray that she'll have fair judgment and conscience on this matter..
thanks.
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