clamsrus

I have children......12f and 13m...... 11yrs to conceive number one, and being from a big family where I as eldest male assuming father role at 11y/o, always considered I'd done my bit.....but I've got to say that nothing unlocks your heart more than a child, and your own child has a key to fit every door. It's a two way thing.....they keep you learning about the processes of being human (Oh and did I say broke as well!!) I reckoned we had a pretty good relationship prior to children....had our act together so to speak.......but it has changed and expanded. They knock the rough edges off, expand your tolerance, force you to become expert in subjects you tried to forget first time around, and the thought of losing them hurts so much that you would lay down your life for them......I guess I've learnt more about myself from having my own than all the years spent treating kiddies or adults.