NOSD1

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I'm was thinking about trying to get with one of the girls at work, but not sure how it will affect my job performance. I am a server so when there are girls sitting at my table, i tend to flirt with them to get a bigger tip. Would it be wise to persue someone i work with if this is the case? Lemme know what u guys think

Juan.©amaney

Just one slap in the ass away from a sexual harrasment law suit dude, don't do it unless you can keep it strictly business at work.

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silver77

^ word

If something goes wrong with the relationship, it's bad for someone.

lefty

I've played that game twice. Once it worked out. Once it was a disaster. Major disaster.

If you can separate church and state, you're fine. Biz is biz and if the relationship can be a non-factor in the workplace, it might work. But I would recommend only going down this road if you're really serious about the girl. Otherwise, trouble awaits.

For the record, the major disaster, the bitch spread her legs for my client the day we broke up, just to get even (that's what she told me!!!!!!!!).

She got her's not long after, when she got laid off . . . when management got wind of an employee sleeping with a client, well, let's just say there was little doubt as to who was first in line when it was time to downsize.

OrdinaryGirl

That scenerio holds so many possibilities for disaster that I'd steer clear of it. Not worth it.

MrBoNeS

Just think of what it would be like to have to see her every day if it didn't work out.

Juan.©amaney

BUT, during the x-mas party, get her loaded and ram her ass in the copy room! on top of the xerox machine!

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CHILLA44

dont do, it doesnt turn out to good if things dont work out, been there... done that...

Frogman

If it does work out, you have the problem of being with her all day at work, then seeing her all the time outside of work. Personally, I would need some time apart to keep things fresh.

jefferson1972

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juan, truly another one for the record books!!

sonrisa10201

Frogman has a point, it would be a lot of time with her, space is nice sometimes, people get annoying faster when you see them all day everyday. but also, work relationships can be ok, if you are able to seperate the two. its not something you want to broadcast to everyone you work with either. it makes it more fun that way anyways.

i dated this guy i worked with for a few months, and we kept it secret cuz everyone was soo nosy, and we didnt want to deal with all of the drama, nobody knew, so it was kind of fun, sneaking little kisses here and there when nobody was lookin, but eventually, we decided to tell everyone, we were both really close to everyone we worked with anyways, and didnt want to keep it a secret anymore, but then once everyone knew it changed,he would bring me flowers at work like everyday, cuz he wanted everyone to know how good of a b/f he was, and just stupid stuff like that, it was nice at first but got old, like instead of just trying to impress me, he was trying to prove to everyone else that he was a good guy.

ok, sorry, i just went off on a huge tangent that had nothing to do with ur situation, but i think if you are going to go for it then you should try to keep it a personal thing, you could get in trouble at work anyways, so it would probably be a good idea no matter what. and as long as you can keep work seperate from ur personal life its all good. and about the flirting with the girls you are waiting on, just tell her, shes not going to be happy about u flirting with other girls, but she is a server too (im guessing), so she knows that happens, she probably does it to guy customers too.

good luck, let us know how it works out!

billpl

back in the 1970-80's I used to run my family's businesses. then sexual harassment was practically a myth and going out with the help was no big deal, but...

In my case, for whatever reason, I didn't have too big of a problem with ex's running around at work but I did think about the revenge factor. so I came up with one trick. I always wrote sweet little notes, which of course I got sweet little replies. kept them in a safe place. it's almost as good as a signed agreement.

my only other advise, as a former employer, proceed with extreme caution. sexual harassment these days is really nasty shit. for all parties involved.

Oh and when it came to other employee's dating? whenever I found out (which was always), the youngsters would get sat down for a 20 minute lecture. it always ended with me pointing at the dude "...remember, you so much a sneeze funny around her and I will fire your sorry ass faster than you can spit" (not kidding)

jds_49

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dont do it one u got to work with them and 2 when it ends can be bad.

NOSD1

Thanks for all your help guys and girls...I think i'll avoid the entire situation.