logan1

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FIRST HALF>>>>>this is about a week back


ok so there is this girl i like in college....we have no classes together.....and she does not really talk to anyone.....so no common friends.....i want to ask her out ...but have never spoken to her before......any ideas how to break the ice........like when ever we pass each other in the hall .....we say hi to each other...........I really don’t know how to start a conversation with her.....
she is around 6'3" feet tall...so i figured i would start by asking her how tall she is.........

SECOND HALF.......

NOW.........



........... anyways i got to know her a bit .....u know talked to her a couple off times for a minute or 2 between classes... one day went to one off her classes...cause a couple off my friends are in the same class ....so i went with them....she came a sat in the row right behind me...she was sitting alone ...so i looked back and asked her to join me in the row up front with my friends and she said ....no thanks.....does this mean i should stop trying or what......i really like this girl....i mean ..i have never see a girl who is 6'3" thats as hot as her....

please help i really like this girl......also i am black and she is white......just incase anyone need too know that......also i am 6'5" ...so i think we would really match physically......

vdawg

She probably didn't want to sit with you and your buddies...that could have intimidated her a little bit. Gather up your sack and just ask her out...all she can say is "No".

robul

tall chicks rule.. im 6'6" and i have always loved tall women..

Ice breaker.. Do not ask her how tall she is.. She hears that shit every single day and I am sure like yourself gets sick of it.

So logan did you play basketball? You hear it everyday.. So does she. It gets old.

As for her not wanting to come sit with you she was probably just intimidated. She probably didnt want to sit with a bunch of guys she really didnt know in class. It doesnt mean at all that she does not like you.

She sounds shy and thats sexy. What ya need to do is befriend her. Say Hi more often. Ask her if she wants to have cofee someday or whatever you college kids do. Compliment her but not too much. Women love compliments.

Find out her interests. see what she likes and focus a little on that. Dont be overwhelming just be friendly and make sure when you do see he in the hallways smile and say hi. Let her know that she is noticed which you allready have done a good job on.

I will let somebody else elaborate more.

DJSAD

I Agree. She Proably Did Not Feel Comfortable Sitting With Your And Your Friends. Next Time Invite Her To Sit With You When You Are By Yourself. Don't Be Afraid Or Shy. All She Can Say Is I Am Not Interested Which Is Something You Probably Don't Want To Hear But At Least You Tried. Good Luck

logan1

k guys i am not shy to ask her out ...it just that she's really shy.....and when i say shy i mean really really shy.......i find that very hot ....and robul...u made a good point about the height....i dont like thos questions much either.....and man if u like tall chix u would love this girl(larui)....man she looks like one off those victoria's secret model........dont really know why she's sooo shy when she looks that good.????

robul

make her feel important. smile alot at her.

and oh yeah.. once you score..
PIX!!

Adonde?

Just give her all the attention she deserves. Once she knows and feels confident that you are talking to her and paying attention to her for the right reasons she will hopefully come around. Don't be worried if she says no, she might not be ready herself for you...damn...gotta stop reading books.

logan1

would really like some advice on kool things i can say or do...for her that wont scare her.....also would like to see/read the prospective of the girls we have on here....

spillmabong

an old man told me once that if you want to meet a girl, just talk to her be friendly and listen to her story. Everyone has a story to tell, shy or not. You might have to pry a little cause she is shy but don't give up. Just get her talking and take it from there, always make eye contact cause it shows that you are intrested in what she has to say, even if you really don't give a shit, still look her in the eyes. (oh yeah and don't stare at her tits while you talk to her ) Women are easy to talk to, just don't let them intimidate you and always smile at her.

peemp

The next time you see her between classes, stop her for a second and ask her if she'd like to eat lunch together one day. It's a simple as that. She'll probably be suprised by your boldness but if she likes you she'll be sure to agree to it. Worry about what comes next later and take things from there.

logan1

thinking about asking her out tomorrow for a movie..................

HIJACKER

how original.. who would've guessed.

The movie thing is over used and sucks. Who wants a movie for a first date.. you won't get to talk at all and see what the hell she is all about.. no chance to get to know each other. Lunch or dinner is ideal, or even having her over to your place and making something. Try something new for once. :wiggle:

robul

kick out the roomates or whatever and make something nice to eat . watch some tv be casual yadda yadda yadda

logan1

pretty sure she wont come to my place.....cause i live in the dorms at school.....we r not allowed to cook in our rooms.......so i guess i will have to ask her out to dinner then .. cause i dont get out off class till..3:30 in the afternoon.......

now here is the question should i wait for her outside her class and ask her out or should i wait till her class gets out and then talk to her about it........before class would be around 8:50 am and after class would the either 9:50am or 1:30 Pm......