Bigeme

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So, I've gotten myself into a rather serious relationship and ever since we sat down and really talked about where we were and what we wanted, my girlfriend can't seem to get enough sex. I'm not trying to brag here or anything, but since last Thursday (15 days) we have had sex close to if not more than 40 times. In fact now is the longest I have gone without sex since that day and its been less than 24 hours.

It's all new to me. I have had sex before I did with her, but not nearly with this frequency and it never meant anything to me before. Now, I am sitting here and procrastinating and that involves looking at random shit on the internet that almost always has naked chicks in it eventually. The thing is that everytime I see these picture I want to be with her. I'm not horny right now and I don't want to have sex at this time, but I see these pictures and all I can think about is her.

I guess I'm getting afraid that I am associating her way too much with sex and I don't want that. I love to be with her and love to talk to her, but just all this pictures are making me think of her so I am afraid I am subconciously getting attached in the wrong way.

Also, yesterday I had to make her leave so that I could study and do my school work. I was kind of glad to be rid of her at the time because we had literally not been more than 50 feet apart for like 4 days and she was starting to get clingy and I just wanted some space, but soon after I was already missing her.

I don't really even know what I am asking. I guess I just don't want to be clingy myself and be like those people that are attached at the hip. I want to spend time with my other friends, but when she is around I just want to be with her.

Sorry for the long and probably confusing post. I have a lot on my mind and I'm kind of stressing out about my exams. I guess I'm just asking for advice. We communicate very well and I've talk to her about some of this. I'll try to clarify later after I stop procrastinating and get some studying done.

CD

sex does things to you... makes you behave differently. You probably missed her because when you are constantly getting sex, you feel closer to someone. You missed the attention is my guess. Cause there is nothing better then feeling REALLY loved.

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Anibal

dont sweat it, i dont see a problem there.

kulotsalot

I believe that when you're with someone you become two things - lovers and friends. Looks like right now the lovers part is going great. Perhaps you feel a bit lacking in the friendship department. When was the last time the two of you hung out without anything sexual happening? It sounds pretty normal to associate her strongly with sex because it sounds like between that and other things you need to do to survive (eat, sleep, poop, piss, shower, etc) you don't get to do much else. I'd try doing something fun and non-sexual for a change after the exams are over. That way you'll see the other side of her that you like - the one that you can have great conversations with, etc.