Chameleon Grrl

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what can a girl do to really thrill a guy? i need unique, cheap (yay free) ideas to blow my guy's mind. any thoughts?

zeppy

Just make him feel like he is the "center of your universe" Wow... that sounds cheesy as hell, but it works. Smile... a guy can tell by your smile and the twinkle in your eye whether or not you truly do care... it's all just little things, really that work for a guy. We're simple creatures, we don't require extravagant things...

Plus if you want to "blow his mind" you could always blow another anatomical part... (j/k sorta)

:happycow:

Hope that helps, Cham.

kulotsalot

So, blowjob week is, in fact, a good idea???

PS Isn't the "center of the universe" tactic = clingy/needy?

Chameleon Grrl

thanks guys, i actually had the "sweet" stuff pretty well covered, i was looking more for fun new sex ideas. we haven't seen each other in too long and i wanna rock him

zaria840

Tongue piercing!!! (if you wanted one)

Chameleon Grrl

haha i used to have one..he wasn't that impressed. besides, it takes a month to heal...thanks tho!

zeppy

Nah... there's a difference between making a guy feel like he is the "center of the universe" and being clingy and needy. It is a very fine line though.

As far as new things to try in the "room of bed", have you ever tried blindfolds/handcuffs... stuff like that? I know me and my g/f do that once in a while and it's something that we both enjoy very much.

Otherwise, you could try breaking out the camera or videocamera... that makes things interesting if that's your cup o' tea.

I guess before I'd be able to answer I'd have to know what you have tried before and both liked.

jeffc574

Did you ever see the "Friends" episode discussing "going commando"? No underwear and tell him just before heading out. I'll bet that get's him. Gets me.

The other thing would be one of those books like "101 Nights of Grrreat Sex..." Just leave a page for him at the door.

Juan.©amaney

Don't take your eyes off of him the whole time. If you are watching TV, riding in the car, having sechts (unless its doggy then, you know), talking....just do it. I had a girl do that and damnit if it didn't work. I had said I'd never sleep with her again, so we went out as friends and I noticed she was doing that...FUCK THAT WAS SEXY!

Also, text message him dirty little things you will do for him...

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throatyogurt

pole dancing classes, they are all over the place nowadays...

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Lucky13

Cook for him. I don't know a single guy that doesn't get excited when his lady makes him a meal, and I don't mean microwave him something, or go out and pick it up. You gotta make him a whole meal (something he likes but doesn't get a lot) and make it good. I don't see my girlfriend that often and when I do she'll usually break out something nice. When I see her it's after hours of driving and I'm tired. Last time I was so tired I went into her room and took a nap soon after getting there. When I woke up she'd made fried rice, orange chicken, dumplings, and a pie for desert. It was like dayum. So anyway, cook for him, and then do the dishes without asking him to help. He'll think "Dang, she's a keeper".

zeppy

Good point. I don't think I've EVER had a girl cook for me unless it's out of a box... I'm pretty sure that would definately make me stoked.

Seriously, try that one. :happycow:

Sab

yeah go careful on the centre of the universe thing. very effective when done properly...but dangerous if not :P

Mule_Hammer

Blindfold him so you can lead him to the bed and tie him up, then pull the blindfold off as you break into a nice strip-tease. When he's good and horny, climb on top and ride away.

Doesn't sound like much, but throw in all the little kisses/moves/touches he likes and it will be a very good time, I promise.