mnkeypnchr

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ok I need a little help here. I have been going out woth this girl for little over a month now and am wondering if saying I love you is early of late to say now. we both like each other and she was extremly excited when we started dating and it seems nothing has changed in her or for her. I have really started getting intop the relationship and for me love is there but Im a really loving guy love everybody and would do anything fro almost anybody I know. we live 2 hours away so see each other on weekends only and she has been working on her best friends wedding which is this comming weekend. I had always thought then would be a good time.
and no sex is not going on and wont be till marrage.

Lucky Bob

Speaking from personal experience, wait until you know that you'll keep on loving her, and it's not just infatuation.

Then again, some would say that it's never too early.

HIJACKER

You only see her on the weekends and you've been dating a month? So, after seeing her 4 times you want to say I LOVE YOU?

My opinion is against that. Guys and girls before the age of 21 honestly really don't know the true meaning of love. You can care about someone, trust them and be faithful without saying you love them. There is a big different between caring and loving which is very hard for a lot of people to tell the difference between.

Just really think about your reasons of wanting TO say it and your true motives. If you sit down and think it through and can honestly say that you do love her.. then go for it. I just suggest you REALLY think it through and make sure you understand the difference between both words and which one you feel.

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litte2suziq

my advise is to take your time..and follow your heart..Even if it takes months, years..

3nigm4tic

Im fairly confidant I can say Ive been in love. When it happened, it hit me like a slap in the face. There is no *time* to tell someone *I love you*. In a relationship, as far as Im concerned and as far I can see, there is no certain time where you are *expected* to progress to *love* if you are saying it for real, and you really mean it, you'll KNOW that you should say it.

lizard2202

love at first sight...i never says "i love u" to my wife. (my g/f then) but deep into my heart i really love her. u dont have to say that..wat matter si your actions, body language, thing like that...

Juan.©amaney

Always wait until the othe person says it first....seriously.

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Impulse2k1

Past experiences have taught me this also

Ritzter

I guess I have always felt that if you have to question or second guess it, then you should wait. You will simply know, and the moment will hit you, not in a, "I planned to tell you" sort of way, but in a, "this moment is perfect" sort of way.

Lazer

How old are you?
And if you keep wiating. the woman will allways say it first..
I allways get it out of them while joking around with them..

smitty134

ok have you ever heard of the saying: "what's good for one isn't neccessarily good for all"? If your waiting for her to say it, and she is waiting for you to say it than guess what...Neither one of you is going to say it.

Being in love is about taking chances and falling hard--now you just have to ask yourself if your ready to jump!

durden

i can give you sme amazing advice my friend. i have been with my fiance for over 6 years now. we were best friends for 2 years before either of us could muster up the courage to ask one of them out...then it took us another 5 months before we coul even imagine of saying "I Love You". now, i know you love the girl, i loved mine that early too. but give the relationship some time. thats all you guys have. i know this because, we onl saw eachother on the weekends too. so give it some more tim, enjoy her and her company, and when the moment is right to tel her (even if you feel it is this weekend) then it will come out on its own. good luck ;(