Juan.©amaney

You are more compatible with the one willing to sleep with you the easiest.

Seriously, if they are both virgins, and so are you....it's going to take a loooooooong time for either of you to lose the cherry. Be patient if you MUST lose it to either one of them. Either that or frat parties! Once a girl with good experience (ie whoreish) knows you are a virgin and is on the drunk side, she'll do the favor for ya!

Read the thread on "what age did you lose your virginity?" notice the stories there have a lof of people that just lost it to some nameless person at a party. The shyness might come from some other source tho...how's your self esteem? How comfy are you with being naked in front of people?

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goligogo

yhat IS a though 1 dude,i feel with you...But the only advice I can give you is : Follow your heart man..I know it sounds classic but it is the best thing to do...what do you think you should do?

PirateOZanzabar

well this isn't really about loosing the cherry, i really don't care. and i don't have to loose it to either one. and i want to loose it to a girl i actually know and care about. and also she will be around longer so i can have sex more than just that one time and then not know when it will happen again. i have had the chance to loose it 2 times, both with a drunk friend and i turned them both down cuz for 1 of them i wanted to date her and didn't want to fuck it up, and the second was an old ex that had just broke up with her bf and had earlier in the lil make out session called me TJ (her x's name) so i didn't fuck her cuz i new she would regret it in the morning... which she did....


and i used to be ubber shy during freshman and sophmore year of HS, then kinda came out of my shell during junior year, and came out more in my senior year. then last year at college i came most of the way out of my shell... still ahve a lil while to go, sometimes i just can't strike up a convo with the people i would like too...... and so far as being neked in front of people, i wrestled... thats basicly enuf said right there.... tho i didn't start to take showers with the team untill sophmore year.... i was kinda saved my freshman year cuz i broke my wrist before the first meet i think.... so i have no problem with my body. im acutlaly just starting to realize how good it actually is. (im trying to get some pics for all the girls to too :happycow: ) im not really saying that i will just strip down in front of all of my friends, but i have taken it all off up to my boxers before and have no problem doing it at all.....



well to tell you the truth, i would like to go with girl 2... but kinda need to see if she is better for me, and see if she actually likes me or not... and i don't know if this is just bc she seems much more outgoing and and more of my type of girl.... argggg im just really don't want to dump girl 1 for girl 2 cuz it would completly crush girl 1... i hate being so nice...

zeppy

Hmm... this seems like a tough one. My thoughts would be to stick with the one you have. You're already with her, and if you go after her friend it could potentially be very disasterous. Besides, if you are completely opposite of the other girl, it isn't too likely that it would work out to well anyway... it could, but I'd think it would be more likely to fail.

In other words, just stick with the one ya got now. :happycow:

Juan.©amaney

Hrmmmm, then you know what...if you like both of these girls, and they are very good friends, its lose lose or win lose.

One scenario, you pick the right one, but rivalry between women would cause them to lose the friendship.

Second scenario, you pick the wrong one and the second choice will not be there to be your backup.

If I were in your shoes, I'd just be very good friends with them and give it a LOT of time before I made another move...











































THEN get them drunk and try the 3 some thing!

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PirateOZanzabar

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ha ha ha! yeah i would love to try the 3 some thing! that would be nice
but still gonna give this a lot more thought. and thanks for all of your inputs. ill prolly be coming back and checking this every once in a while just to remind my self what every one has sugested... so thanks everyone and hopefully i will be able to be as helpfull for you guys.

OrdinaryGirl

I think the fact that you can talk to girl #1 until all hours of the morning really says something important. It sounds like you have a really good basis for a relationship. My vote is for her.

PirateOZanzabar

yeah im prolly gonna stick around with her for a while.

kulotsalot

So, who's the GF, POZ? Girl 1 or Girl 2?

PirateOZanzabar

its girl one :happycow:
thanks for wondering

ghosttalker

I have dated girls with low self-esteems before and it is not easy. The way I see this playing out is no matter who you choose their friendship will be over (at least for a while). Even if you go with girl #1. She may look at it like you don't really want to be with her because you couldn't decide. Even if they don't know that girl likes you now... they will eventually and then get ready for WWIII. I suppose the "safest" route would be to choose friendship with both of them. If I were you (and I am glad I am not because this situation sucks) I would roll up my sleeves and make a decision. Would you want to be in their shoes? Go with your gut. If it blows up in your face at least you did what you thought was best at that time.

ghosttalker

oops am i too late?