Chameleon Grrl

just curious, is this the same advice you'd give a chick wanting a threesome with her boyfriend and his roommate?

johnnyrunner

chameleon grrl:

Yep. Same advice. Either way, boy girl whatever. If you want someone to understand why you want to do something, you have to explain the benefit to THEM. Actually, my friend in school is looking for a threesome with two guys and she's trying to convince the guy she's seeing. However, since they're just dating casually I don't think it'll be a hard sell. But I see your point. The "threesome" debate always seems to be about men finding the ultimate fantasy.

In the immortal words of Marlon Wayans: "A threesome is nothing more than the opportunity to dissapoint two women at the same time"

Chameleon Grrl

johnnyrunner,

brilliant. thank you.

skycatcher

hmm. You're not going to be able to convince her. Period. She's got to want it or at least be curious about it.

I agree with getting a drinking game going, playing strip poker, etc... something erotic to get things rolling BUT!!!!! it will be terrible if you do not talk to her before that.

Sit down and ask her what would happen if you two had a 3some with another female and discuss the "game plan". I.e. is it ok for you to stick your dick into another woman or just eat her out. You need to find out what is allowed and what is taboo for your GF BEFORE the 3some happens.

If you have a good idea about what you're allowed to do when that time comes then things will go smoother.

a 3some may break a relationship though so be careful. Yes, it's a great experience for a guy to fullfill his 3some fantasy with 2 women but at what cost?

Think before your penis does.

firepixie

Thing is, she said she didn't want to do it. Unless she tells you she changed her mind, I wouldn't push it. She'll get angry at you. And even if you get her drunk enough to actually do it, she might kill you in the morning. What you gotta ask yourself is, is it more important that she wants to do it, or that her roommate wants to do it? Just because her roommate seems up for it, that really shouldn't make a difference at all. What good is the roommate if your girlfriend isn't part of it?

bigpat12

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If she is not game then it probably won't happen. If you don't care for her and you really think her friend is with it bring it up one night to her friend and have her instigate it.

I think it will fall into place that way. But I am telling you this may not be the last time that she gets down like that and next time it may not be with you and her it may be her,her and him!!!!

flip6942

Great job if you can find it, turns out it screws up most relationships. So be careful what you wish for.

skept

Nicley put flip.

Save 3somes for the pornos that you jack off to - its better to have a lil less but be with a girl that loves and respects you then to have 3somes and have a skank who don't know respect or love even if it smacked her in the face with a crowbar.

tres28ram

Watch out, she might like her more that you, and you could wind up in a chair
watching (which isn't bad), It's the next day you have to worry about....When
it hits, and the conversation starts.....

DubLivitz

threesomes are great but can ruin an ongoing relationship. Save the threesomes for one night or weeklend stands