Melciah

Well - We for the most part, handled it like civilized people, with a little help from a few select people..Thanks alot Juli, and others..And we're back together..She was just shook up as wasnt how she envisioned losing it..guess it's a bit tacky..but she was caught up in the moment, and so was I.

She'll be 18 in march. In the beginning, like the day after - she was fucking bummed that it happened..now she's like it's cool that it happened..still a little uneasy about the car..but, we think we're gonna be together for a while, which doesn't bother me, and she's glad that she lost it to me, so she says.

moviebuff88

mel it definitely seems like you really care for her so just wait it out. time will show her how strong your feelings are for her. it already seems like she's coming to grips with losing her virginity so with more time she'll be totally ok with it. good luck on everything. hope it all works out the way you want.

Jabooty_3

It seems you're working your way backwards, started with a bang and are now working slow. It happens and all you can do is try to work past it. Just make sure to stay with her and treat her with respect, show that you are a reliable man.

EvilMonkey

i agree with juan, she is as responsible as you if not more so. its a well known fact that men cannot think when they have an erection. women generally are more in control when horny.

i think she is guilty about letting herself lose control like that and she is projecting her guilt onto you which sucks.

be careful with this one, she sounds like a manipulator to me.

fyrwulv

i think it was just nerves after losing her virginity. in my limited experience of havin takin a few cherries, the woman has always felt some trepidation afterward and sort of regretted it but once they came to grips with it they were fine. i hope you have a great relationship. just stick with it and if she was ready then you 2 will do fine. good luck and i hope i helped.

motoxfts

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Hey man, The car idea was a bad idea but i mean if she consinted than she might not of minded it at the time, she was wanting to have sex and so she took advantage of the situtation as did you, but you didn't take advantage of her, if you asked her 30 times then she had nothing to say against it. i had a girl that when i took her virginity she was upset about it as well because she felt afterwards she wasn't ready but after time she realized how much she cared about me and that she loved me and that i loved her, we just recently broke up but thats not here nor there, had nothing to do with us having sex. just let her know you love her (just don't say i love you unless you do) or maybe a better way to word that is that you care about her more than anything in the world, i mean, if you all were together over the phone for as long as you were then i mean you all have something special so i think things will be fine for you. just don't talk about sex unless she brings it up and don't attempt to sleep with her again till she says she wants to and if she asks you and you know you want to still ask her "do you want too" and if you get the "i know it'll make you happy" say no, thats the worst reason to have sex. But i know you know how to treat a girl and so i think you'll be able to work this out just fine. just let her know, sex isn't important to you. it's her that's important to you and that sex is just something that is earned through a loving relationship.

dagafla

Just be honest, dont bullshit just to get back with her. Dont say something like "sex isnt important to you" cause I dare any guy here to say that they wouldnt have sex with a girl there seeing if they had a chance. Of course sex is important especially if you know what its like and your not a noob to it. Im glad that things are working out for you but dont tell your sorry over and over again. If anything just say im sorry things didnt work out the way it did. Thats it end of story, plus she chose to have sex at that time as well, regardless if it was in the heat of the moment. She only met you 3 times and then bangs you. In the meantime though have a good relationship with her, she seems like she could be a little bit of the controlling type so make sure you voice your opinion and dont let her walk all over you.