schutzenkonig

You did nothing wrong, I just didn't want wildcat jumping on you for it. It wasn't you that gave me the idea to not talk to her about it, it was me, I just don't think that I can deal with it any other way right now. She had promised to come see me for Thanksgiving, and I really wouldn't have too much problem if she still came over for that, but she doesn't want to anymore and I really don't think she wants to try to stay friends and I think it's more than just the distance and many have said.

Juan.©amaney

College does that to long term relationships, specially "long distance." She see's possibilities, new experiences, different people a chance to reinvent herself. Women her age LOVE that for some reason. Goes back to my rule that no guy under 25 with a decent future should have a girl friend longer than 3 or 4 months. Women her age are sort of stupid, in the way that they don't know what they want. BUT, it's the way of life. It teaches them to value a man, and us men not to trust those painted faces and nice firm bodies.

You are better off without her. The first days are the roughest. Trying to piece together the why, how, and when of the reasons she gave you for leaving a 3 year bond. You are trying to justify her leaving you and are trying to understand her. DON'T!!! Women aren't meant to be understood! Get rid of her pics and little reminders, don't stay couped up inside and sooner or later you will get back on that horse. Also, don't keep in touch and staying friends after a break up is bullshit! Always remember, she left you and walked out of your life.

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tkd_guy01

Sorry to hear it man, it's never a fun thing to go through. On the other hand, you also experience the sensation of being free again. You're mostly sad right now but the feeling of new found freedom eventually takes over. It just takes time.

spydur86

I got dropped 2 weeks ago by mine. We were together a year and a half. Bitch broke up with me the day before our year and a half anniversary and said she almost called me the next day to wishe me a "Happy Un-Anniversary." Apparently she's been talking to this other guy a lot and its "easier" to see him 5 days a week than seeing me 2. (I came home everyweekend from college.) Anyway, 2 weeks later, I'm still fucked up, I loved that girl, but whatever. Shit happens, I'll get over it. You'll get over it. Eventually you'll meet a girl who surpasses the previous, and you'll realize that you were lucky to end your relationship and you'll just be thankful. I can't really be mad at my ex-girlfriend. She had the decency to break up with me before she started anything with this other kid, but it just kills me that after a year and a half she can all the sudden drop me for a kid she's known for like 2 weeks. Sucks even worse cuz we lost our virginity to each other a month before the break up. Our relationship was really just getting started. Anyway, I feel ya man, this shit sucks, but it happens to everyone.

mrsnifflez

I agree with juan. I went through this same thing about two months ago. Still today i have trouble with it, but it has only been a couple months. i am tons better now than i was, and the people on webrats are apart of that. i'm really sorry to hear that you got shit on as well, but these girls we dealt with will soon regret what they have done, but too bad for them we will have moved on by then...

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Mikeyis4fun

sucks dude, but go get some pussy and you'll live

HIJACKER

Hey Shutz -

If you wanna go out for a beer, lemme know. I'm sure this sucks for you, but.. everything happens for a reason. Remember I'm in Centreville and Chrystine lives with me (the girl who lived in Burke also).

Anyways.. PM me later. I prolly won't be back in this thread.

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Alderune

Distance is a nasty thing. But yeah if shes close to your house like you said, the distance thing just seems like a cop out to me.

I've done the whole long distance thing and it killed me more than her. 10 hour drive just to see the other one. And it wasn't fun any more. How long were you guys away from each other when she started school? If its been a while, then id say yeah theres no need to hold on if it feels like you're not even really getting a chance to even say hi. But if it was like a month, she may not be getting the attention she wants and it goes all down hill from when she's not happy. My thoughts.

siopawman

i dont know if we feel both feel the same, but mine's definitely a different situation. we're almost 4 years now, until she reflected that things are not going smoothly for us, and we should think about continuing the relationship. yes, we had problems, but she got tired of "kiss and make-up" most of the time. i still feel something for her, but she told me she doesnt love me anymore! (how's that compared to your gf?) she told me to find someone who can love me, someone better than her... but even if i found that "someone better", would i be happy..?

maybe you can reflect upon why things happened.. and find some answers on your own.. its really hard to recover when your the type of person who gives more in the relationship..