WR - Is it me or what, and what makes the pain go away. Help

10-22-2004, 08:51 PM	#16
RacerX93 whore Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Texas Posts: 56/0.04 Threads: 0 Friends Network	Re: Is it me or what, and what makes the pain go away. Help I dated a girl for 3 and a half years in college, and after we graduated, I took a job in the same town because she was going to graduate school, and we wanted to be together. Well, one day, all of a sudden, she makes a comment about our relationship. She said we were "loosey goosey". I was like, "WTF??? We've been together 3 and a half years, there's nothing loose about our relationship." The next thing I know, she's talking about breaking up, and then we did. This girl was my whole life, and I didn't know how I was going to go on. Well, I ended up making some mistakes that took me years to fix. Don't do that. Believe me, it's not worth it. Anyway, I eventually reached the point where when I look back, I'm sooooooooooo happy that we broke up. We were not right for each other at all, but we stayed together for a long time because of the whole security thing and not wanting to start over. So believe me when I tell you that as sad as you may be right now, that's how happy you will be at some point down the rode. :wiggle:

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10-25-2004, 02:02 PM	#17
*BackdoorJesus* Take this, and eat it... Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: in the real O.C. IQ: Higher than yours Posts: 7,301/4.29 Threads: 199 Friends Network Gold Member	Re: Is it me or what, and what makes the pain go away. Help Unfortunately my friend, the only thing that makes the pain go away is time, and wisdom. Two years seems like soooo much of your life right now, but you're still pretty young & you have many adventures ahead of you - good & bad - and as time goes by, two years will have less & less significance to you. As you grow away from this period in your life, rest assured, your feelings will heal and you will gain invaluable wisdom from the experience. That's why these situations are called "Life Lessons". As juan said, you may have lost the battle, but don't lose the lesson!! Hang in there & focus on getting back to being your old self...I guarantee you, it will get better if you just hunker down, move on, wait it out & give yourself a chance to be happy!!
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06-06-2005, 10:42 PM	#18
natew91 whore Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: kenmore Posts: 23/0.02 Threads: 1 Friends Network	Re: Is it me or what, and what makes the pain go away. Help ya man a sting after 2 years like that really takes you for a downer. Just keep your head up man and it sux and is hard but youll find someone to nmake you happy again and forget her.

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06-07-2005, 02:47 AM	#19
TheMooninites bitch Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: In MD Posts: 1,789/1.41 Threads: 59 Friends Network	Re: Is it me or what, and what makes the pain go away. Help As squish and Juan.©amaney gave great advice there is nothing for me to offer you in terms of advice as you got great advice from them. Well, best of luck on your situation. Hope everyone who has offered advice has helped you out.

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06-07-2005, 03:19 AM

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Re: Is it me or what, and what makes the pain go away. Help

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Originally Posted by natew91

ya man a sting after 2 years like that really takes you for a downer. Just keep your head up man and it sux and is hard but youll find someone to nmake you happy again and forget her.

This thread is 8 months old....I think his problem is already solved by now.

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06-13-2005, 02:56 PM

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Sounds like you are better for it. You better get your shit straight (drinking) if you want a decent life. You took a knock on the chin for sure. From the sound of it you are a young guy and this train wreck will be a word of advice to some young punk one day. Primarily though, cut way down on the booze... as you have noticed it caused you to cheat on your girlfriend and may have even enabled her to do what she did. If she rationalized it that way then she had a free pass. Also when drunk at parties try to only screw tramps when you have protection. If you thought you have seen some rough shit wait till they put somthing on your ass ajax won't take off. Oh wait that is always the 'other' guy.

Move on! and keep on lookout for the next train wreck.

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