popopopo

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Sorry for having two threads so close to eachother I just wanted to know your guys take on this.

My girlfriend who is on the pill wanted to be extra sure, so we used a condom. This happened in my room. it wasn't feeling good at all so I took it off and she was cool with that. I threw it on the floor knowing that I would get it when we were done...we finished and i forgot the condom and then we went to watch a movie. I guess the condom fell onto the blanket which we then took into the living room.

I get home tonight from work and I see a note on my door. Inside is a note from my mom telling me that I am irresponsible and disgusting and inside is the condom. Apparently, my stepdad picked it up from the living room floor today...I have no idea what to say to my mom and am kinda afraid to approach her. She knows we have sex and I am 18 but still, the condom was on the living room floor! Thank god it didn't have anything in it. However she did add, "good to know you're using condoms."

If anyone can top this of really shitty things to happen to you, please chime in and cheer me up.

clamsrus

bit of a mixed message there huh!! disgusting..responsible
how responsible was taking it off?
only disgusting when you tread on a full one in the morning half asleep.....now that sobers you up...but not as much as being told I'm pregnant.

popopopo

i don't quite understand it either but trust me, the akward dinner conversations/silence has been well enough punishment. Even worse, my mom had been keeping the secret that my girlfriend and I had been having sex from my stepdad. Guess who found the condom?

Yep.

Anibal

responsible ? dude i dont know how on earth she can call you responsible unless she knows she is on the pill, anyways condoms are the worse thing ever, you dont feel anything and its really uncomfortable. The pill is the best option, ive never had a problem like yours with my current gf cause i have my own place, however this may cheer you up a bit: when i was backhome i thought the house was alone so me and my current gf snucked out of school and went to my house... i was pumping away when my maid walks into my room (and this is a maid that has known me since i was born) she just looked and said like what?!?! im sorry?!?! and left and then we never talked about it never again.

clamsrus

so how long has your mother been keeping this from your stepdad?? Bit strange for a 52 year old wouldn't you say..............living at home and being monitored!!!!!!!

zeppy

Hell... try explaining not one but two broken box springs to your parents.



Needless to say, it wasn't from jumping on em.

Caspar

If my 18 year old had sex with his girlfriend with a condom, i'd be proud because he is responsible.

Then, im 22. Maybe things change.

nwbmw

Good Grief, just tell her what happend. Do you and your mom talk? If your 18 you guys should be cool enough to talk about anything? What the fuck can she do? Your Grown!!

durden

rough man...see for me, i go to my dad, but mom is still too touchy...

i say like all the others, try talkin to her and explain the situation.