casdawg87

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I love my girlfriend very much, but she cant give me head. I really want her to, but she says she will throw up on me. She gave me it once with a mint condom on, ,but that sucked. Any advice?

randomglitter

Try going down on her first, that might help. But if she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to.

WEme

Yep some girls arent into that so if you love her you will find something else that you both like doing or you need to move on to a girl that really likes giving head.

BlackPearlSpace

can't give head? you got a defective unit, send it back to the factory.

seriously though, what she prolly means is that it will make her gag. this is a reflex, however she can train herself to suppress that reflex. this is her choice, if she wants to work at it she can eventually do it. but she has to want to. she might have some emotional issues, moral issues, or the idea that sex is dirty. these are not things you can change and are deal breakers.

explain to her that its a reflex and your willing to be supportive and patient while you both work through this. if you're not willing, that's also a deal breaker.

if you both want to do these things, she can practice on a banana: they're cheap, it's the right shape and if she screws up while learning, it's mushy and harmless. then get her a dildo when she's off the banana training wheels; a small one.

when she's ready for the big leagues, let her try on you. don't pressure and be patient: it WILL be a terrible blowjob. resist the powerful urge to thrust, let her do everything - hands and all - while you sit back. if you break her trust at this point you willl spoil it. no-hands face fucking is for seasoned cock-suckers only.

so, figure out how much you like this girl and if you want to make these "sacrifices" to let her learn. if you don't value her enough to do that (and don't beat yourself up over it if you don't, better to determine what you truly want and go after it), then go find yourself one of the aforementioned pros.

i saw that you said you love her very much, so decide. my advice is to ask her if there are any hurdles for her other than the puking. like I said, the gag can be overcome, but other things like screwed up "morals" or something that went askew in her socialization somewhere along the way, cannot. and some girls just don't like it no matter what.

good luck, you may just create a monster, if you're willing to put in the time and effort.

adam bomb

dont push it man just focus on goin down on her and pleasuring her,she will see how great it feels for her and tyr one day to do the same for ya but dont push it it man take it easy.