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Anyone outthere know how to approach a girl and ask her to have lesbian sex with me?

Bigeme

I don't really think I can help you, but more information might be useful. How about are you looking for a random lesbian experience or are you a lesbian looking for a relationship and trying to come out? Do you want to get with someone you know or just a random hookup? I don't know thats kind of an open question. I don't think anyone can really give useful advice without more information. The only thing that I can say is give it a shot and just jump in and be forward. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

OrdinaryGirl

Well, if you are simply looking for a sexual experience with no strings attached, I'd say you would pretty much have the same options as you would if you were looking for an experience with someone of the opposite sex. As far as I can see, you have four choices: 1) ask a (lesbian/bi) friend to help you out, 2) put up a profile on a dating site (seeking women), 3) pick someone up at a (gay) bar, or 4) hire a prostitute.

Personally, I'd go with #2 as you have the chance to be selective and discuss exactly what you're looking for before it happens. Good luck.

wudluv

I would say that if you have no gay or lesbian friends or coworkers your best bet is to use an online dating service, or find a gay bar and just hang out there until you meet someone.

Personally I have never used a dating service but I have been to many , many gay bars so the following is my advice if you decide to go that route.

When you first start going to a gay bar, all the regulars there will look at you as fresh meat. You are going ot get hit on by every dyke in the place at first.
DO NOT jump in bed with the first girl who tells you you look sexy or whatever, but keep going back to the bar until you finally meet someone you like. This might take days or weeks or however long it takes. You also have to put up with the rare straight guy who cruises gay bars looking to hook up with lesbians and the fact that alot of gay men just plain dont like lesbians at all.

Most of the lesbians you see in a gay bar every night are only there to pick up others to have sex with. If you find one you like go for it, but dont get upset when the next evening shes bragging about it to all the others in the place. Lesbians are worse than guys about this sometimes.

OH and get to know the bartender in the place, gay men are bigger gossips than old ladies. And if gets to like you some he can steer you away from some of the love em and leave em types.

Another thing is lesbians hang out in little groups of friends. Sometimes one grouo might not like another for whatever reason, just try not to get involved any of that. I am kind of an outsider myself because I am bisexual. Some lesbians accept me for who I am, others wont talk to me, and some try to convince me that if I sleep with them they can make me forget about men altogether.

Well thats my advice on the subject. I am sure theres alot more to it than this but just use your best judgement and be careful. And remember that theres alot more to having a lesbian relationship than just dildos and dental dams.

OrdinaryGirl

I just wanted to commend you for taking the time to share your experience and observations. I'm sure she will find your post very helpful.

Lucky13

no smart-ass replies

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