johndemarco

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I just broke up with my GF of 1 year. We're still gonna live together until next year (lease and all). She says she likes being my friend a lot; less pressure on the relationship. For the first week of us being broken up, we had sex every night. But now, suddenly, it's come to a halt. She keeps ranting about how she hates men because all they see in her is a sexual object. Now that's not ALL I see in her...but it's still a big piece of what I see in her and I don't want it to stop.

Anyway, my question is: How do I get her to keep having sex with me on a regular basis? Given the circumstances, she isn't going to get a new BF for at least a few months. And she gets mad just thinking about me watching porn or masturbating. It's basically like the only way I can cum in peace is with her, but she wont let me do it anymore.

Getting a new GF at this time would be a bad move, as I'm still living with this one, I really don't want to be in arguements every single day. Maybe in a few months after we've gotten used to 'being friends'.

BillaBong6

Well if she doesn't like you jerking off or watching porn its prolly better than you aren't with her. Its part of being male, you need to release the tension sometimes. But anyway, to get her to have sex with you on a constant basis? Hm, thats a toughy, but I would try and put it in her butt, really hard. If she screams than its all over, if she likes it, well than there you go, shes an anal lover and she never really liked it in the vag. Or you could just get her real drunk. But trying to get a girl to just have sex after you broke up? Not looking good...

tkd_guy01

So how did the sex in the first week after break-up begin? Who initiated it? Did she just stop after the first week or did her behavior change?

Chameleon Grrl

give it up it's not gonna happen. she's been very clear that she doesn't want to fuck you anymore so if you try to manipulate her somehow into giving it up anyway then you're an asshole. especially now that you're broken up it's none of her damn business whether you jack off or not, but it's also not her responsibility to see that your pathetic little dick gets milked now and then.

WEme

Honestly i think in this situation if you want to keep it going just be the asshole...not so much of the like treating her like shit but more of just being the guy that wants what he wants....so just initiate the sex, if shes in the kitchen just take her right there. But if she blows you off and says no then dont and actually move on....

vatoloco

bring other girls over to watch movies or some shit... like sluts... but don't necessarily fuck them... because it's hard to get a good girl to come over after you explain that your roommate is your recent ex...

she probably just wants to fuck some other guy, or has been...

skycatcher

I'm sorry but and at the same time.


If you grudge fuck her in the ass it might make you feel better but it's definately not the way to go if you still care about the girl.

I'm dating a girl right now who is still married to her husband and lives with him because of the lease situation. She still fucks him every now and then and I let her - she still has feelings for him but she knows that the relationship is over between the two of them.

I'm not crossing my fingers hoping she will just be my GF because I know that it's not going to change all of a sudden. You're probably in the same boat at the other guy - she still has feelings for you but something in the relationship went wrong and deep inside she may be hoping that you will get back together like it used to be even if it doesn't seem like it ever will.

It could be that she wants you to realize what happened and is using sex against you so that you will change for the better and the two of you have a second chance - but I don't know what happened so I can't really give you specific advice on anything, just general advice on what may be happening.

The best thing would be to sit down and talk to her. Tell her that you realize that you're not in a relationship anymore but you really enjoy the intimacy that you have with her. Tell her that you would like to continue sleeping with her if doesn't bother her but on the other side you don't want her to think that she is just being used for sex - that it means more than just that to you.

and if you want to push the tear jerking also tell her that when you have sex with her it's more than just the physical aspect of it - to you it's not just sex, when you sleep with her you're making love to her. Even if the relationship didn't go the way you wanted it to go you you still care about her a lot and when you have sex you see it as expressing your physical love for her since she won't let you love her any other way.

As always, work these things into your personality to make it come over as genuinely you, not just a line you found on some internet forum

Hope that helps you some,
Sky