joemichaels1982

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I hope someone outthere has some tips for me.
I am married to a gorgeous girl I mean she's beautifull anywhere we go she gets stared at all day.
One little problem that I have is that she's insecure and doesn't like me talking to any girls.
I don't really care to but it's getting a little to much is there anything I can do to make her feel better.
Thanks for any tips...

skept

Well first up you must realise is that she cannot be the only woman in you rlife that you can talk to. She must get over her insecurities and realise that shes the only girl for you and that while you will talk to any other girl, the way you interact with them will be purely plutonic.

The alternative is that if she lets ya go out with the boys - then go out with the boys and enjoy yourself. Maybe this is just a small sacrifice you must make to keep her happy - but make sure that she doesn't end up cutting you off from everyone but her. If she begins to do that then you must really think is she really worth it.

One other factor to make her learn is quite simple. Turn the tables on her and tell her that she can't interact with any males apart from you. If she can do this then its a fair situation your in or she will allow you to talk to other women.

jeffc574

By "talk to girls" does she mean interact with co-workers, get help in a store, stangers in bars, hotties in the mall? If you are doing the last two, STOP. If it is the first two, she needs to understand that you are not cheating, you work with a babe and it is just work.

mramelbass

Two options...she gets professional consuling or you divorce her.

Lazer

Divorce is a little harsh....

I would say just go outa your way to make her realize that she is your one and only. But you have to be carefull to. To much and it may make her think you are doing it for a reason...

Also i have found that alot of very attractive women are insecure, Therefore they go outta their way to look good. catch 22...

Juan.©amaney

Yeah we need to know a little more on the situation.

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Skyler7

Ask her why she doesn't trust you. Either she has a good reason or it's a stupid reason, but you need to know why she doesn't. If she did trust you, you could talk to a roomful of supermodels on Free Sample Day and she'd know you wouldn't do anything with them. But if you can't even talk to any girls, something's seriously wrong and you need to get her to tell you why she doesn't trust you.

Good luck.

Skyler

OrdinaryGirl

A lot of beautiful girls are insecure and it has very little to do with how well you do or don't treat her or who you talk to in what circumstances. The threat comes from how she perceives herself, her relationship with you, and every other female in the world. Everyone seems like a threat to the future of your relationship.

All you can do is reassure you that you love her but she needs to understand that half the population out there is female and that you will be interacting with them and that they will be pleasant interactions for the most part.

Sharing a laugh with a waitress or enjoying a pleasant interaction with a female clerk is NOT a threat to your relationship and if you cater to her insecurities, you'll end up miserable and walking on eggshells anytime there is another female in the room. Not healthy.

I think with time she will realize you aren't leaving her. But don't play the game. You'll make her MORE insecure instead of less.

TheAman

Is it the same reason my beautiful wife is insecure? My wife gets pissed because I'm a cheating whore.

inimyaudi

you're in quite a pinc. i have the same problem right now with my girlfriend- it's not like i'm brad pitt or anything but i do get along well with females. my girlfriend's mood mood totally changes any time we're around other people. i've tried telling her she has nothing to worry about, that i can't and won't change my personality, but it has not helped. christ, if it were'nt for the fact that i'm not shy and will strike up a conversation with any woman in the room, she never would have met me.

most people who i've talked to about it say that the jealousy and insecurty will only get worse.

fisher25

She's manipulating you into being a needy, kiss ass doormat. As long as you are faithful and just being a sociable fun guy, don't cave and kiss up. Tell her you love her (but NOT that she is the only woman in the world for you!) and let her deal with it.

pluckyducky

im with fisher, chicks love competition, dont stop talking to the opposite sex just because
she says so, but at the same time realize that you should keep it platonic.
if your going out on the town with "coworkers" who so happen to be female with no other
males around, know now that your wife is not stupid and that if you didnt want to be monogomous you shouldnt have gotten married. Thats short and to the point of stop, or her and some private eye pictures are gonna take half your shi. If your just being social, and i use this liberally as im a firm believer as guys and girls dont talk unless they want to fuk or the ugle chick has some hot friends and your using her as a stepping stone, my suggestion is to just be your clueless self. Your wife will hang around because shes afraid youll run off with whoever your talking to. Lord help you when you start liking whoever your hanging out with, because if shes worth your time its inevitable.

Lord plucky